To complain to the housing association and demand thicker walls.

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Im so angry at the woman next door. She has left her little girl crying since 9.30 and she is sobbing her heart out.
She normally does this when she has a man round and when she doesnt she stomps up the stairs screaming at her to shut up and go to sleep.

Its really pissing me off because i am sitting in my front room and can hear her crying and she and her latest bloke are outside in the back garden smoking weed and he is telling her to turn the tv up so he cant hear the kid screaming.

They are disturbing my dd's and i cant go to bed because i can hear her dd in my bedroom and it will wind me up that she is not being comforted.

Im all for controlled crying and that but the dd is 2 and she is begging her mum for a cuddle.

So AIBU to wish the walls were thicker meaning i would be a less nosy neighbour?

Her poor dd though

so do you live in havant? just curiosity!

I don't think such an attack on the OP was needed.... I have seen plenty of threads, particularly on AIBU (and I have only been here a month or two) where someone has asked if they should call SS and have been flamed for it. I can understand the reluctance to post that.

Having said that, it does sound as if something needs to be done. It is not controlled crying going on - it is ignoring a distressed child.

Yes OP, please do call SS, you are well within your rights as a concerned person, let alone mother yourself, to express your concerns.

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