Every Saturday am DH and I have an agreement. I go out for the morning whilst he looks after DS who is 5 months old. He has always said to me, take your time, enjoy yourself and I have always said okay dear but not really taken very long (usually no more than 2 hours).
Anyway, this morning I did my usual (except for the fact I said to DH "see you in a couple of hours" before I left) I went to the gym and whilst I was there I met one of my neighbours who I have become friendly with. She asked me if I wanted to have a coffee so I went for a coffee. I left the house at 10:30 and got home at 1:20. I should also mention that I did not see the need to call him seeing as he is always telling me to take my time and coincidentally because I had not looked at my phone all morning I did not realise that I had forgotten to switch it on this morning.
DH went mad at me (he shouted at me in front of our neighbour - how embarrassing) - he said that I should have called him to tell him what I was doing. I pointed out to him that he is always telling me to have a nice time and relax so I didn't see the need. But he was still really upset - he said because I am usually back by 12:30 he expected me back at that time, and also he was really worried about me (had I been in a car accident?), and what should he do about the baby re feeding (he could have given it a bottle)?
AIBU for thinking he has lost the plot a little? Or was I wrong for not calling him? I have been feeling a bit rubbish all day about this.