I have just found out from a trusted friend - and also my CM that a mutual friend of ours found DS wandering around in the street in just a t shirt (literally) nothing else while he was suppost to be with XH. Said friend took DS back to my house and XH told her 'he's fine he's waiting for his mum! .
apparently XH was watching him from the window (according to him) and DS was running off when XH was calling him back. I want to know what the hell DS was doing outside with nothing on aside a t shirt, and why DS was screaming when she brought him back to our (my) house. why didn't XH go outside pick him up and bring him in the house?
XH says it's cos he'd wet himself which is why he was out there like that.
So am I over reacting in having a go at XH - if it wasn't for friend I would be none the wiser.
it takes 30 seconds to snatch a child and XH doesn't seem to grasp this concept.
(FWIW XH has a history of being abusive towards me, v disrespectful in my house - ie not cleaning up at all for 3 days, last time I came home to find a huge puddlle of pee in the loo on the floor not cleaned up and used nappies (wet) in my bedroom open and not even folded up never mind put away)
i'm not for one minute suggesting I stop contact with XH/DS but soemthing has to change surely?
a friend is suggesting I contact SS.