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to find a Dad doing an impression of donkey on a train a nnoying

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AlaskaNebraska · 30/10/2009 11:55

ok on train
dad comes on wiht a d of about 3 eating an apple and a ds of about 6/7
ds played nintedno
after 5 mins LOUD parenting where we ALL knew where they were goign and what Heducational Hactivities to do, the dd ate her apple.
the dad coudl nto refrain himself from a nnoying her.
so he started doing THAT NOISE donkey does on Shrek when he is on the way to far far away castle here - the POP sound
then the dd carried ona dn carefully ignored him
i wanted to Say LEAVE HER ALONE FGS

OP posts:
WickedWench · 31/10/2009 00:18

I was mortified at the time but have heard a number of reassuring stories about parents excitedly pointing out diggers and fire engines to other adults on public transport!

Never did donkey noises tho!

LadyGlencoraPalliser · 31/10/2009 00:42

This thread reminds me, I had meant to post this piece from last week's Guardian somewhere. In the absence of an MN Pseud's Corner, I reckon this thread is the perfect spot.

Jonathan Jones on art

'I let her touch the sculptures. What harm can baby hands do?'
The other day, my four-year-old daughter told me with a grin: "I'm chopping the fish." She had a toy knife and a plastic bowl. Inside the bowl was a jigsaw piece with the word "fish" on it. Kids, eh ? teach them to read and they think they're René Magritte.

Primavera's love of clowning is certainly fed by a precocious knowledge of art. On her first day at nursery last year, she was shown a painting of flowers. Asked what it was, she replied: "Sunflowers by Vincent van Gogh." She was right ? it was, but I think she was just meant to say "flowers".

In Jean-Luc Godard's film Bande à Part, there is a scene where the heroes run through the Louvre, past the history paintings of David and Géricault. I've got used to running through museums in the same way. The Elgin Marbles gallery in the British Museum is my daughter's personal racetrack (we live nearby) and one day I hope to be able to stop and look at the frieze. But she learns on the hoof. Ask her what those half-horse monsters carved into the marble are and she'll tell you they are centaurs.

I love two things in this world, art and my family, so of course the two come together in all sorts of ways. We visit galleries a lot, and Primavera knows ? increasingly ? that I write about art and that it may therefore be a way of getting my attention. This summer, she strode around the Uffizi gallery in Florence announcing herself as Primavera, the most important modern artist in the world.

But I definitely don't have aspirations to turn her into an art critic or an artist. The wonderful thing about being four is that all the world, all possibilities, are waiting. Who knows where this will lead? What I do believe in is education, and that museums are great places to nurture minds of all ages. This discovery is scarcely unique to me; Britain's museums are full of families. But I have learned a couple of things that might help.

One is that adults who are bored by museums will communicate that boredom. Her parents both love museums, so the enthusiasm is infectious; she knows we are at our best there. Another thing is to break the rules, or at least bend them. When she was a baby I let her touch the sculptures, surreptitiously. What harm can baby hands do? Now we play and yell in galleries, occasionally reprimanded by a humourless guard. Would they rather I sat her at home in front of CBeebies?

Our favourite museum is the one with the dinosaurs, of course, and the richness of the Natural History museum is magical. But art creeps in even there. Once we were playing in its Investigate room and Primavera organised some butterflies into a Hirst-like installation. "It's modern art!" commented a supervisor. Well, she says she's the most important modern artist in the world: what did they expect?

pointyhat · 31/10/2009 00:58

I can't believe I do not remember the popping scene from Shrek.

He sounds like Var Annoying Dad.

Clary · 31/10/2009 17:06

LGP @that.

Is his dd actually called Primavera? I am sooo glad I will never meet him!

JANEITEluddite · 31/10/2009 18:03

Primavera? Oh dear lord. REALLY? I have never heard of him but he sounds like a pillock.

BalloonSlayer · 31/10/2009 18:11

Rofl at:

"This summer, she strode around the Uffizi gallery in Florence announcing herself as Primavera, the most important modern artist in the world."

And the fact that he thinks that is charming, and that everyone else will agree, is one of the best examples of what being a parent does to your brain I have ever encountered.

BTW I reckon you could puke on the floor of the Investigate gallery and some wag of a curator would say "It's modern art."

boolifooli · 31/10/2009 18:44

This thread reminds me of the time I was walking home from town with dd3 and dh came out to meet us and ran down the street bent over with his arms outstretched making aeroplane noises. OMG. I have to live in this street!

onebatmother · 02/11/2009 12:33

still blinking at that article LGP

But shamefully also feeling slightly competitive

LadyGlencoraPalliser · 02/11/2009 12:42

PMSL OBM.
Didn't you like the Sunflowers bit best. The faux modesty of "I think she was just meant to say "flowers" made me ROFL - and then quickly search my conscience to see how many similar boasts I've been guilty of.

onebatmother · 02/11/2009 12:55

Oh dear yes.

But there is no competing with this guy:
"The Elgin Marbles gallery in the British Museum is my daughter's personal racetrack (we live nearby)"

O rarely?

MmeGuisingt · 02/11/2009 13:02

Goodness. I had to read the article twice LGP as I thought it was a piss take. Poor wee lass, not only called Primavera but also weighed down with expectations.

OP
You are absolutely NABU, to find Donkey Dad irritating. DH likes classic cars and there is alwaya a dad to be found at car shows, lifting his bored 2yo up to see the car engine while waffling, "Do you see the cylinders? This is an 6 cylinder boxer engine, the first one made for Porsche just before they started making 914s, remember I told you about that?"

It almost makes me wish that the child would puke into the engine just to shut them up.

And I know who you are

inveteratenamechanger · 02/11/2009 13:10

PMSL at 'she knows we are at our best there'. Whereas I am at my best taking fish fingers out of the oven with a fag in my mouth.

BitOfFun · 02/11/2009 13:20
onebatmother · 02/11/2009 13:39

Yes, where is that girl?
Focaccia! Your linguistics tutor is here!

onebatmother · 02/11/2009 13:42

And roffle at the undergradness of beginning art with "In Jean-Luc Godard's film Bande à Part.."

BitOfFun · 02/11/2009 13:48
BalloonSlayer · 02/11/2009 14:20

" Now we play and yell in galleries, occasionally reprimanded by a humourless guard. Would they rather I sat her at home in front of CBeebies?"

Of course they fucking would, you nong! Why should they give a mosquito-sized shit about how your daughter is brought up? They just thing she is annoying. Like her father.

SCARYspicemonster · 02/11/2009 14:28

OMG that can't be for real? Can it?

I am loving this thread.

InterruptingKid · 12/11/2009 15:39

Right wehre is Ghoulsaloud

AnnDaloozier · 17/04/2010 15:01

HERE WE ARE

the LOUD PARENTING THREAD

plimsolls · 17/04/2010 15:55

i read the title as doing an impression of "a donkey on a train". Now can't stop thinking about what a donkey on a train would sound like.

deaddei · 17/04/2010 16:35

I read the title thinking there was a dad with an enormous knob (as in Donkey Kong)

AnnDaloozier · 17/04/2010 17:26

lol
kind of "nnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnneooow"

dopplerdonkey

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