I have choose to be a sahm only becuase I didn't want to work in the evenings and I gave it up so I could get the children into a routine and also son was starting school I would struggle to work 4 late nights to 12.00 and then get up to take kids to school,should I be grateful that im able to stay at home but had to make sacrifices like no new clothes for me or the kids or meals out you know extras etc.
My partner says he will pay for me to go back to college to add to my qualifications although I will look for a job after xmas for me to have my own money and to become good at my carrer eventually, am I unresponsible xx