OK, DH is officially an arse. He is in the middle of his weekend playing with his stupid little car and has had a change of heart (if you recall I agreed he could do this one weekend as it was too late to pull out, but after that was to stop).
Anyway, he now is trying to bargain so that he can carry on with his pathetic go-karting hobby. He is 10 kinds of wanker and I'm not happy.
Having ranted, pleaded, shown him original thread and all sorts, I don't seem to be able to get him to understand why I am so against it.
So I think the only thing to do is to demonstrate and make him feel crap, so he realises why I am so upset. The easy thing to do of course would be just to disappear for a weekend to a spa and leave him with DD and DDog. But then it occurred to me that he'll just be able to suck that up and I won't have gained anything in the long-term.
So really I to find something to do that will occupy me, DD and DDog for a weekend. DD is 15 months and into everything. DDog, otoh, is old, smelly and bad-tempered. I am struggling to think of anything that could occupy the 2 of them. Ideally I need this hobby to have a good selection of other people there, including men.
DH needs to be made jealous basically - not just of me but of the 3 of us (me, DD DDog) to see that if he doesn't value our company then other people do. It may sound horrible, and it is, but I'm at my wit's end. For various reasons I can't just walk out, but DH can't just be allowed to behave like my opinion is worth nothing.
He's gone of like Joan of bloody Arc this morning, all matyred pretending he's doing his last session when I know full well that he has no intention of giving up.
Please help if you can by a) agreeing this is not unreasonable and b) suggesting anything that me, DD and DDog can do?