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im am f**king furious

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welshbyrd · 07/10/2009 19:58

My partner and i, decided to married next year

We foned around for venues, n prices etc, n a particular venue did a £1500 wedding package, to include vintage car, 3 course meal for 50 people in the day, buffet for 80 in the evening, professional photographer with 30 pic album, disco and dj etc for evening

We had planned the wedding for 4th sept, but registry office didnt have any dates in september, but had a spot free for 28th august, bank hols weekend

My partner foned this venue, who also stated they were available, and put menu"s etc in post for us to chose, we would have 7 days to bring the paperwork back and pay deposit, but they had assured us the date was booked.

So we booked the registry office, and paid the deposit of £43.50 yesterday

However, 10 mins ago the venue foned to say they had double booked, and had already been booked for a wedding that day

The lady on the fone seemed, not one bit sorry, n was basically asking us what alternative dates we"d like, even after been told the deposit had been paid to registry office,

I know that im never gonna afford to pay more than what they were asking for the package, one venue has quoted me £800 for the afternoon meals alone

AIBU to expect the venue to refund me the deposit of the registry office, seeing as i only picked that date because they had assured it was available, and they had booked us in?

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LynetteScavo · 07/10/2009 20:54

Dont' forget you'll need to allow for dress/suit/ bridesmaides dresses, invitations, etc, flowers & cake.

Although all can be done on a budget.

Good luck with it all!

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bigchris · 07/10/2009 20:56

yanbu

hope you manage to rearrange to a date you want

bit at the rude comments on here , good luck op

bigchris · 07/10/2009 20:57

oy korma hun

Rindercella · 07/10/2009 20:59

Korma huni, I reckon you need to take a chill pill.

Hugz

xxxx

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welshbyrd · 08/10/2009 07:23

And i meant me like many other families, DONT have millions in the bank

Sorry about confusion

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