to not want to go out for a meal on a sunday night with ds?

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It's mil's 65th birthday next sunday. Family want to go out for a meal on the sunday night.

DS has just started school doing full days and is finding it really exhausting. The last thing I want to do is for him to have a late night on a sunday. The restaurant will be atleast half an hour drive away.

AIBU in not wanting to go?

I would go, it's not ideal but as a one-off for a special occasion I wouldn't worry too much if he's tired for school the next day.

I really think as a one-off it's not a big problem at all. I would def take him.