So perdiodicaly we have this argument, I'm a SAHM and obviously don't earn any money and obviously HE is the one bringing all the money home.
Two days ago we had a normal chat about divorce, not us, but in general as we know some people who are getting divorced. He thought it was not fair that the wife gets so much of the divorce settlement until I had to explain that we work harder than men (7 days a week), enable them to further their career and usually foresake ours etc. In any case, the money is not for the wife to go on a cruise trip (although probably well deserved), its used to look after the kids if she cannot work. Ok, think I got my point across and he said he can see my point.
So yesterday we had a little domestic over the words 'mine' and 'yours'. He is Asian and when we first met he said he cannot understand us Westerners and how everything is divided into 'mine' and 'yours.
He slipped up yesterday again and said 'my' money and 'my' car so I called him a hyppocrite (sp?). Then he said he has to protect himself as if I was ever to divorce him he would be left with nothing.
I was fuming.
Ok, so we argue every now and then like everyone else does but we don't talk about divorce and stuff. I guess it must be in his mind somehow or he would have not brought it up.
To come to the end of this, I'm obviously deeply offended to be called a goldigger, threw his bank card at him and gave the key back to 'his' car.
He had to go to hospital today for a shoulder operation and I was meant to drive him and pick him up on Wed as he won't be able to drive (45 mins drive each way).
He didn't apologise so needless to say he was driving himself today in HIS car.
I did feel a bit guilty after he left and called his mobile to see whether I should drive him (still wouldn' have talked to him though), called 4 times but he didn't pick up so that was that.
So if you are still with me, AIBU?