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Should I call the RSPCA?

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ineedalifelaundry · 19/09/2009 19:28

Ok here goes...

Out walking my dog this morning, came across a pair of (self confessed) alcoholics on a park bench. One asked me if I would call an ambulance for him as he felt like he was dying. He didn't look at death's door to me and his mate said "he does this all the time". So I was directing him to the nearest phone box when I noticed a tiny emaciated puppy with visible ribs asleep on his lap. I asked if the dog was alright and was told he was fine- 9 weeks old. I said he was too thin, that he needed worming and feeding properly.

Half an hour later, on my way back through the park, same guys were there with a couple of paramedics. I went over and offered to take the dog. Everyone, including another concerned bystander, agreed it was a good idea. I left my address with the paramedics and took the puppy home. It was half starved, ate an adult sized portion of food and still wanted more. I took it straight to my vets, they examined him, gave me wormer, confirmed he was indeed underweight and told me to bring him back in a week for vaccinations. I then bought a collar, some proper puppy food and a couple of toys. I didn't know how long I would have him for and I meant to look after him properly. Back home I gave him a bath - he stank.

Teatime- knock on the door. A man I've never seen before with 2 kids says "someone said you've got my dog" So I question him about it, such as why did that alcoholic have it, why is it under weight, why hasn't it had vaccs, why no id tag or microchip etc. His answers were frankly crap, he contradicted himself on several points, and even though he claimed it was his kids dog, the kids are standing there looking bored and blank, even though I'm holding their supposedly beloved puppy in my arms who had been missing for 3 days

I told him to come back in half an hour when my DH would be in because I wanted to talk to him. He came back in 15 mins with his wife and another bloke, gangster type, who started giving my DH loads of lip and attitude. They changed their story so many times I couldn't keep up. I offered to give him the £100 he said he'd paid for the dog but he said no, he wants his dog.

We had to give in- we gave him the dog. I told them again that it was underweight, it needs worming, gave them the worming medication and told them how to give it, said he has to go to the vets asap for his vaccs... They nodded and said yes in all the right places but I just don't know...

We've got their name and address. I'm thinking of calling the RSPCA to go and check up on the dog.

Should I?
What if he sends his gangster mate round to threaten us again?
Really don't know what to do.

OP posts:
ineedalifelaundry · 19/09/2009 23:43

Ok. Thanks v.

Feel really upset about it tbh. The poor little thing spent most of the day curled on my lap, nestling his head in the crook of my arm. Can't stop thinking about how vulnerable he was. And how much I wanted to protect him. Feel useless for having let them take him. Crying now.

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valhala · 19/09/2009 23:56

Please hun, you're not useless... so many people would have walked away. Believe me I see a hell of a lot of them. You're to be admired and respected for what you did and for caring. You have children in your home and were confronted by unpleasant people on your own doorstep, no-one can blame you for the decision you made. I fully understand that you are terribly upset, I would be too (and murderously angry with the s), but chin up, you're doing your best and should be proud of yourself.

cornsillk · 19/09/2009 23:56

Poor you. I think I would have done the same thing if threatening people had appeared at my door.

junglist1 · 21/09/2009 20:06

What a lovely person you are. I had a not so proud moment recently when I completely ripped into a dirty skank who was abusing her dog. She tried to cross the road to fight so I took my jacket and earrings off but her fellow skanks held her back luckily for her. Her boyfriend then came stumbling over the road to apologise, told me it was his dog and he'd rescued it from a crackhead. I said don't let her hit your dog anymore or I'll come and take it off them. Hopefully the man who came does have good intentions for the dog. If you called the RSPCA they would be able to work out if they love the dog and get them free treatments etc.

valhala · 21/09/2009 23:19

Junglist1 - bless yer! Good for you, but please do take care of yourself too.

OP - have picked up your message and replied by email as promised. Sorry for the delay.

gnomesrus · 21/09/2009 23:31

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