TO BE BLOODY UPSET?

[Disenchanted3]

Just gone on facebook, my sister got engaged recently,

one of my aunts photo folders is 'congratulations on your engagement xxx and xxx'

I look inside and theres all pictures of all my family with my sister & fiancee with a cake balloon, everyone with beers in hand, presents for them

and nobody told me,

I already feel left out and this has just upset me so much

I know you don't want to split, and tbh I don't think he does either... you both are going through tough times at the moment.. not that it's an excuse or carte blanche for cruel behaviour, but we always take things out on those closest to us. Main thing is to keep calm and don't panic. TBH if he sees you as calm as a cucumber, it'll make more of an impact on him than if you are screaming hysterical. You'll feel better in yourself too! You have the little ones to think of too, they don't need to see mummy cry etc.

How is it all going now?

Have you got to the bottom of this bloody party thing? I still think somewhere, in all of this, yr mum, sister or aunty have some serious questions to answer as to why you were excluded. Wishing you luck!