If you need to ask, why yes, indeed you are

[hunkermunker]

Go and post on other things now, kindly thoughtfully.

Thank you

Are you sure you are all right, OP?
You come across as very emotional. Do you think there could be something in your past which makes this topic particularly upsetting?

Oh sorry I missed that bit

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I just couldn't keep that to myself, this is the 1st time I have been able to 'confess' that, I am just glad the vicar didn't see!!

Op I hope that it helps you.

Oh I see my message was deleted, I don't know why!

I know all about social services TPL. My neighbours' baby is always crying in the room next to mine. And the parents take FIVE WHOLE MINUTES to get to it. Not only is this totally unfair to me, it MUST be an obvious case of child abuse! I mean, we all know controlled crying is absolute torture!!!

I will never post again. All I wanted was reassurance........

You're obviously a journalist

A DM journo no less!!!

Then again, I wouldn't know as I never read the DM

OP, you need to get you, your baby and your DH into a routine ASAP. Here we are all in our matching Sound of Music outfits by 5.30 am and polishing things before work / school. So, until you all do this daily - and it is your responsibility to organise everyone, including your DH - yes, whatever is bothering you, YABU.

Has anyone mentioned narcisistic personality yet?

I haven't read the whole thread but just wanted to make sure you are ok OP (((HUGS)) I think it's worth ringing Ofstead.

Has nobody noticed the OP has vanished??
Could she no longer stand the abuse or has she disappeared into troll land?

(Remember the thread where Hunker was supected of being in cahoots with Nestle of all corporate entities?!!)

Oops sorry wrong thread

Thank you to all those who have understood me and validated my very being by agreeing with me. Yah boo sucks to the ones who disagreed.

I have issues surrounding teeth, trousers and trombones and some of the flaming meted out on this thread has brought back very painful memories for me.

I vanished from the thread because I was Very Busy doing worthy things for, er, charity, children, the elderly and lepers.

So NOW how do you feel? Hmm?

pmsl....(so i feel wet)

Just as raven suggested - AIBU by stealth! If you worked for charity, you ought to have mentioned it in your original post! FFS, why don't people ever learn?!

Still think YABVVVVVU!

Does the OP buy pre cut fruit? if so yes YABU

I am so sorry we have brought back those painful memories! Though, how could we possibly have known?

YANBU of course. It is OUTRAGEOUS that your second cousin could even think about celebrating her wedding without including your delightful children. It makes me so

Not just pre-cut fruit... the key issue is whether the OP makes her own cakes from scratch or buys them from the supermarket. If the latter, she should give back all of her child benefit

Well, I'm from a council estate, so what's your point?

god you are all so toxic, passive aggressive, narcissistic...... continues in pseudo speak until bores self to sleep

TheBalladofGayTony, you have summed up a lot of MumsNetters perfectly.

It doesn't matter whether the fruit is pre-cut or not, the fact is if you eat a grape before you've paid for it you should be locked up for a minimum of 10 years.

So someone's BU, but it's not me.