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To sit on the train and say nothing to this woman

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CHOOGIRL · 08/09/2009 20:39

I was sitting on the train today and a woman (30+) got on with her baby who cannot have been more than six months. She then opened a bottle of fizzy fanta orange, decanted into the baby's bottle and then fed it to her. To say I was would be an understatement. I have no idea whether Fanta is OK for babies, but it just felt wrong. I so wanted to say something, but didn't. WWYD?

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Jajas · 08/09/2009 20:41

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LaurieFairyCake · 08/09/2009 20:42

I would do nothing.

And unfortunately after today (when a social worker supervised a mum giving her 5 month old a sugar dummy - that's a fairground sugar dummy made entirely of sugar) I think no 'authority' like SS would be interested.

It's very sad.

BitOfFun · 08/09/2009 20:43

I would have ripped the can from her hands and thrown it out of the window in the manner of an unexploded hand-grenade, while simultaneously calling social services, like any right-thinking mumsnetter- isn't that the correct etiquette in these situations?

Jimmychasesducks · 08/09/2009 20:43

i wouldn't have said anything, but would have looked shocked

dingdong05 · 08/09/2009 20:43

silly twat probably thought it was ok, cause it was orange.

not a lot you could've said, and jamming the can down her throat would not be considered polite travelling behaviour.

Thunderduck · 08/09/2009 20:44

Saying something would serve no purpose unfortunately.

I can top that. I once saw a woman who opened a can of red bull who then proceeded to pour some of it into her baby's bottle. The baby was about 8 or 9 months at most.

LaurieFairyCake · 08/09/2009 20:46

lol at BOF

blahdiblahblah · 08/09/2009 20:48

OMG!

oneopinionatedmother · 08/09/2009 20:48

why not tell her she can get advise on the best fizzy drinks for babies on mumsnet?

LovelyLulu · 08/09/2009 20:48

How awful, baby's teeth will have holes in them very quickly if she does this regularly. I wouldn't say anything, it would be resented and ignored.

oneopinionatedmother · 08/09/2009 20:48

advice

Servalan · 08/09/2009 20:48

f*ing Redbull?!!!

I remember being shocked at seeing a baby about that age drinking coke out of a bottle a couple of years ago, but that tops it!

LauraIngallsWilder · 08/09/2009 20:48

at all these anecdotes

Laurie was that in the news or something you witnessed?

CHOOGIRL · 08/09/2009 20:49

I haven't stopped thinking about it all day. This was a grown woman, who was well dressed. If it was a teenager I would probably have made conversation with her about the baby before mentioning something in a non-threatening way. But because this woman looked like she should have known better I said nothing.

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madeupsurname · 08/09/2009 20:49

BOF

Thunderduck · 08/09/2009 20:50

Yes Red Bull. I couldn't believe it either.

LaurieFairyCake · 08/09/2009 20:50

LIW

dd witnessed it today at contact with her mum (mum fed it to her new baby)

pigletmania · 08/09/2009 21:31

OMG thats dreadful, I probably would be really really shocked and shoot her dagger looks but would not say anything. Bitoffun lol yes good idea.

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