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AIBU?

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I probably am. Go ahead and flame me. Someone is always taking things out of our recycling bin and I don't know how I feel about it.

59 replies

Jacksmama · 02/09/2009 21:42

We live in a townhouse complex and the recycling collection comes every Weds so we put our blue bins out in the morning. And every Weds, this man comes around with a huge plastic trash sack and takes drink cans, glass, and plastic bottles out (the ones you can redeem for cash). He does it quite openly, and yet, if this makes sense, in a somewhat furtive manner. I've had my front door open and have been sat MNing at the computer in plain view and he started rummaging in our bin, then caught sight of me, started, and hurried off to the next set of bins. Even though I didn't say anything to him or even glared. (Really, I didn't.)

So I don't know how I feel about him doing this without asking us.

On one hand, we've put them out in the recycling bin. So, clearly, we're not going to bring them to the bottle depot for the little bit of cash we could get for them.

On the other hand, really, until the recycling truck comes by, we do own everything in the bin, so I'd quite have appreciated it if this man could have rung our bell and asked if it was all right for him to take the cans and bottles since we clearly didn't want them, or even have done this the day he saw me through the open front door at the computer.

Really - I don't mind, he's welcome to them, but I do wish he'd asked.

AIBU?

OP posts:
MmeLindt · 02/09/2009 21:44

YABU

If he is so poor that he is raking in other peoples bins to collect their recycling, then you surely cannot grudge him them?

Hassled · 02/09/2009 21:45

He needs the money more than you do. Eventually, the stuff will be recycled anyway. I can see why you're a bit iffy about the not asking thing, but at least this way someone's benefitting before the recycling happens.

QueenOfFuckingEverything · 02/09/2009 21:45

YABU.

Its one thing having to riffle through bins to earn a living, without having to suffer the embarrassment of asking the bin owner if they mind. Trust me on this.

Ponders · 02/09/2009 21:45

OTOH we pay rates to the council, the council organises a recycling pick-up, & presumably they also sell on the stuff with a value to help boost council income.

He is stealing, actually.

???

generalunrest · 02/09/2009 21:46

If he's doing it to a lot of houses he prob can't ask everyone, and like you say, he's presuming that if you've put it out then you don't want it.

You might be feeling a bit weird about it cos of all the shit they go on about with identity fraud and people going through your bins for your details.

I think it's good that if someone can get some cash from it, and he's working for it, good for him! Fk, who doesn't need a bit of extra cash

ThingOne · 02/09/2009 21:52

Why don't you put a sticker on next week inviting him to help himself?

I would feel a bit odd about it too but I'm not sure with any justification!

MmeLindt · 02/09/2009 21:56

We put out any larger items that we don't need on the first Monday of the month.

That could be anything from furniture, to papers to old bikes.

The local council collects things that we would otherwise have to take to the tip.

There are several guys who go around with vans looking to see what folk put out. It is like freecycle without the fuss.

I don't mind. I am quite happy to let someone else take the stuff that I don't want.

claw3 · 02/09/2009 21:57

Legally it is stealing, the stuff in the bins belongs to whoever supplied the bins and they profit from it.

Tortington · 02/09/2009 21:58

yeah you are

Mamazon · 02/09/2009 21:59

ds has been going through our neighbours bins today to get boxes and bits and pieces to make a robot.

there is paper and glue all over the place but he's been happy as larry sticking and painting cereal boxes.

i didn't even think that someone would have an issue with it.

claw3 · 02/09/2009 22:00

I once put out an old TV and a guy knocked and asked if he could take it, he also asked me whether it came with a remote and instruction manual!

norktasticninja · 02/09/2009 22:01

What QueenOfFuckingEverything said.

TBh if I'd seen this I'd probably start putting the redeemable stuff in a separate bag for him to collect.

ginnny · 02/09/2009 22:02

YABU Let him get on with it. He's not hurting anyone!
that you get money for plastic bottles??? I might be rummaging around our neighbourhood bins soon!
and at MmeLindt's local council collecting for the tip.

norktasticninja · 02/09/2009 22:03

They collect for the tip here too, 'tis a continental thing I think.

ZippysMum · 02/09/2009 22:05

My DFil collects cans from all over, crushes and recycles them and donates the funds to charity. He's been doing this for years (though he says recently the price of aluminium has gone through the floor and he's getting a lot less for each sackful) and has made hundreds of pounds for the local hospital and hospice.

Don't think he goes through recycle bins (though maybe ... ). But if he did, I wouldn't mind .

Tambajam · 02/09/2009 22:05

In our local area the items that go for recycling do not get separated but thrown in together. They are never separated but are ground up and used for road refill. So if he is selling them on as separate materials he is doing the environment a favour as well as earning a few pennies.

I think if this is the way he is forced to earn a living it is sad to begrudge him that.

generalunrest · 02/09/2009 22:05

claw3 'Legally it is stealing'

That's being a bit pedantic isn't it?? Are you suggesting the OP calls the police or something The blokes just trying to make a couple of quid, he's not breaking into people's houses and nicking their TV, it's a bit stingy to begrudge him isn't it?

claw3 · 02/09/2009 22:05

I should imagine raking through bins, is pretty degrading for the poor guy. Why would you want him to humiliate himself further by knocking and asking to rake through your bin?

claw3 · 02/09/2009 22:09

General - Not at all, i was simply answering the question Ponder asked.

Mutt · 02/09/2009 22:09

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ApplesinmyPocket · 02/09/2009 22:09

I'm always more than glad when things go to a good home and it sounds like he needs the cash. Heck, I wouldn't want to be so desperate for money I'd rummage about in bins,and it may be embarrassing to him to knock and ask as you'd prefer (something very humiliatingly cap-in-hand about knocking at a door and begging to take empties!) so let him keep his dignity and the stuff and don't give it another thought.

EyeballsintheSky · 02/09/2009 22:12

Why does everyone assume he's hard up? He could be doing very nicely thank you and have a little sideline going.

EyeballsintheSky · 02/09/2009 22:13

Meant to add that the op said it's the recycling bin, so he's hardly mooching through a week's worth of sardine heads.

generalunrest · 02/09/2009 22:14

Ahhh, I see what you mean, and your post just after mine

claw3 · 02/09/2009 22:14

On a pendantic note, once the rubbish is in the bin, it no longer belongs to the OP, so he doesnt have to ask your permission!

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