to want my dh home for weekend rather than spending it with PIL in france. been a hectic time for us lately. i'm 34 wks pregnant and inlast week of work and we already have a 5 yr old and an 18 month old. our child minder left on short notice so been stuck for child care, and dh has been working non stop until after 9 every night. had two wks of holiday planned for end of july and he had to go back to work for one of them. so he had this week off instead when he was going to help out with the kids while i had last wk of work. he decided to go to visit PIL in france and i booked the tickets with return on friday so we could have the bank holiday weekend together as a family before the baby arrives. and tickets were alot more reasonable. but all hes been doing is going on about how he should stay for the weekend. now tickets cost a fortune to change. we have only had five days of holiday together as a family- and he wants to stay until sunday. his exact words- we'll come on sunday and you can pick us up at airport and we can do something nice sunday night. i have a rocky relationship with his parents (very demanding- pushing him to stay) and am so tired of being prioritised last. job, his family and then me. hes brilliant with the kids though. just wish he would learn to prioritise our family time as well. ongoing issue obviously. sorry to be so long. and hes heading off on business trip for week after next which means very little time together before baby comes. and i miss my kids they've been gone since mon and supposed to be back fri. and due to bank holiday impossible to get remotely reasonable tickets to join them.