ah there is the rub,some folk hear a contrary opinion and get all humpy esp on AIBU
and some AIBU are so risible,well they cry out to be snorted at eg
AIBU to think my MIL is a conniving miserable old cow,she wants to chose and buy gluteus maximus christmas present,all herself. i said Noooooooooooooooooooooo i do the present buying around here
and dont get me started on AIBU by stealth,the drip drip of relevant information.each piece revealed in a contradictory manner to flatter OP