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To be planning a 3rd baby while living in a 2 bed house??

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booboobunny · 13/08/2009 12:17

folk seem to be outraged at this....my sil in particular can't believe i'd even consider it.

we currently live in a standard 2 up 2 down +extension in london, with 2 pre-school children. i would really love another baby and as i hit 40 this year (boohoohoo) and my mother had the menopause at 43 i am aware that the clock is really ticking for me. we had hoped to move this year, but the property market has done for us, especially as my husbands job is quite heavily linked to property, so we also have that worry.

at the moment my (just) 3 year old girl and 21 month old boy share the 2nd bedroom and i figure a baby could be in our bedroom for the first year anyway, so it wouldn't be a disaster. yes, the house is small, but we could declutter and are currently having work done to maximise the space we have. is it really so ludicrous to consider this. i really don't feel i have hte luxury of time to sit back and wait for the market to improve enough for us to sell our house. the husband wouldn't consider renting ours out and renting a larger one either....

i'd be interested to know what others think....

OP posts:
teamcullen · 13/08/2009 16:52

seona are you my sister?

I lived in a two bedroomed house until my DD was 12, she shared with her 2 brothers.

Its not bad when they are small . You just have to be very organised, which Im not.

herladyship · 13/08/2009 17:02

i shared a bedroom with my brother until he went to uni (i must have been about 10.. seem to remember most of my friends shared a bedroom too back then

my dd (8) has her own room and is VERY envious of some friends of ours who have 5 girls in a three bed house - to her it must seem like they have a 'sleepover' every night of the week

i say do what you think is right, there will always be people who don't agree but in all honesty its not their business!

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