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AIBU?

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To think 'loved up' couples should consider single people like myself and stop canoodling in public every summer?

68 replies

NoGlassSlipper · 06/08/2009 19:11

It's like as soon as the weather gets warm, everyone starts acting like it's mating season. I am fed up of seeing couples so eager to get at it they can't keep their hands to themselves. Fed up of walking down the highstreet and having to walk around couples kissig, or walking at 'mate pace' - really slowly holding and caressing hands.

The bus stop is always full of them every summer - it's like "look the bus is coming, grab my bum quick"

Parks are full of them rolling around on the grass under trees. It's a real picnic spoiler even without DC's.

Saw a couple walking at mate pace yesterday in the park. I had to hold back the urge to barge abruptly between their clasped-for-life hands.

They have no consideration for those who are single and partnerless or heartbroken.

I'm single and want the right not be confronted by hand and bum squeezing, lipsucking couples in heat.

I am not jealous. Just reasonably annoyed.

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OrmIrian · 06/08/2009 19:14

Try being in a couple and struggling to remember how it felt to be like that with your partner . Envy, confusion and guilt!

harleyd · 06/08/2009 19:15

ah, get over it, let them have their day
not be long before they are all lonesome and bitter at the bus stop too...

ChasingSquirrels · 06/08/2009 19:21

??????????????????
don't go out then.
life goes on.

Tamarto · 06/08/2009 19:23

Sorry but, 'not jealous' HA!

jemart · 06/08/2009 19:26

Oh, get over yourself. YABU.

famishedass · 06/08/2009 19:30

ha ha I hate it too and I'm not even single.

public displays of affection should be punishable by placing said people in the stocks.

troutpout · 06/08/2009 19:33

@ harlyd

famishedass · 06/08/2009 19:33

On the other hand

where I live, come summer the place is full of drunk arseholes standing outside the pub smoking and making absolutely hilarious remarks such as "get those knees up love" every time I go for a jog

so maybe snogging couples would be preferable.

pjmama · 06/08/2009 19:36

Console yourself with the sad fact that in most of those cases, it probably won't last! (I'm such a miserable cynic...)

Failing that, a bucket of cold water should sort 'em out.

laloue · 06/08/2009 19:50

I don't mind gentle showing of affection, until he starts twiddling the back of her thong over the waist of her (low slung) jeans.In the queue @ Sainsbo's. Bleeeee.

NoGlassSlipper · 06/08/2009 19:58

Great suggestions famishedass and Pjmama.

I have nothing against summer love. Just feel that people should consider that they don't have to publically show that they wantto get off to the whole world. Especially when there are partnerless people at the bus stop, or train station or hospital waiting room standing right next to their entangled necks.

Bum groping in public is just plain insensitive. Just wrong. Kissing in the middle of the high street doesn't help the economy either as it prevents flow of people traffic and shops get passed over.

I do not need to get over myself. They do.

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Longtalljosie · 06/08/2009 20:11

"Kissing in the middle of the high street doesn't help the economy either "

You're right. Tell Alistair Darling. Maybe he can sort something out, for all our sakes...

Tamarto · 06/08/2009 20:14

This is AIBU if you know you are not why post?

snala · 06/08/2009 20:31

YABU !!!!!

lovechoc · 06/08/2009 20:31

OP, I can see where you are coming from. I'm happily married but think there's a time and place for that sort of behaviour. I certainly wouldn't go out of my way to canoodle in front of friends (single or not) when out and about. It makes others feel embarrassed and sometimes uncomfortable.

YANBU

OrmIrian · 06/08/2009 20:32

Erm.... was this serious? I took it as a joke.

harleyd · 06/08/2009 21:08

really orm? i took it that she was jealous bitter serious

Morloth · 06/08/2009 21:12

If it makes you feel better, we do it all year round.

frankbestfriend · 06/08/2009 21:13

I took it as a joke too, Orm, so in that spirit I say YANBU.
I am neither single or heart broken, but public displays of affection do make me
I am always trying to persuade dh to kiss me in public, but he is having none of it, sadly.

SerendipitousHarlot · 06/08/2009 21:13

Oh come on, she's clearly joking

I myself hate looking at it. Because it makes my mind go back to the halcyon days of yore

BigGobMum · 06/08/2009 21:21

I think sometimes some couples can go too far. We once had to stand in a queue (containing many families/children) outside the Jorvik centre and there was a couple in the queue groping and practically eating each other. Completrely inappropriate behaviour. Wish I'd had a bucket of water!

NoGlassSlipper · 06/08/2009 21:21

laloue you should have complained to manager of sainsburys! It's enough to put you off Jamie Olivers meal specials. Thong-string-handling? At the queque????

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NoGlassSlipper · 06/08/2009 21:28

Morloth......disgusted, needless to say.

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LovelyTinOfSpam · 06/08/2009 21:37

I like to hold hands with DH. But will hold yours on the other side glassslipper if you like, and we can all skip and have a nice time.

Perk up eh, it has been pissing down tonight, all of the thoughtless canoodlers will be hiding under shop awnings and doing extra canoodling in a super-sickening manner. peering out and then kissing and all that. At least the sun puts paid to that sort of nonsense.

And then winter every pub you go in has loads of them gazing dreamily over drinks near an open fire.

So think yourself lucky it's summer!

Judy1234 · 06/08/2009 21:59

I love to see it but obviously from this thread most people don't. What offends me is when I see a couple in public being nasty to each other - she snapping at him and he being nasty back. Dreadful.