Im probably going to sound about 14 here but it is a tricky situation and am not sure whether I am BU? My friendship group ( mainly female) fell out with one of the other girls about 2 years ago! There was a disagreement over something pretty major and 2 of my friends had it out with her and felt they were then lied to! The rest of us kept out of it, the next thing we knew said girl disspeared to live wth her partner elsewhere and we lost touch/didn't speak! I sent a text about 2 months after the event and was told she'd moved on and she was happier without us, fair enough! Years later we got in touch through facebook and got on quite well catching up on kids, partners etc and it was fine. However my friendship group is not happy and although the word traitor hasn't been used, its what they're thinking. I had actually thought about meeting her for a catch up but the others are seriously not happy about this! DH thinks its fine as I was friends with this girl since school, some of the freinds are more bothererd than others! am I a traitor? am i BU? Is it taking things one step too far after all this time?