Ok, so I've discovered that 3 women who pretend to be all nice and friendly to my face, have, in fact, been slagging me off behind my back for months.
I'm not surprised at all at one of them, as she has, until recently, said very unpleasant things about one of her new allies, but now that it's in her interest to befriend this lady, lets call her R, she has.
So, do I let them know I know what bitches they are and tell them all to fuck off, as I'm much better off without them, or do I just not initiate any contact but rise above it (which I always do, and, have to say, normally feel like a bit of a doormat).In fact, I could just blow the whole thing apart and make it really messy and let R know that L went behind her back and complained to our boss about her work, although to her face never says anything, but maybe that would be too bitchy.
Would you just back off and be grateful not to waste more time with such horrible people, confront them, or let each know how much of a "friend" their friends really are......