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Going out and leaving baby

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Roopoo · 28/07/2009 14:35

Not sure if this is off topic but do you think it is OK to go out on saturday evening for a couple of hours and leave 14 week old DD with my mum and dad?? We haven't left her yet and don't want to be a bad mummy..
Thanks in advancex

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MiniMarmite · 28/07/2009 19:19

Absolutely!

Have fun

The first time I left DS with anyone other than DH I worried all evening even though we were only 10 minutes away (and it was his Nanna, my MIL looking after him). After a few times I got used to it though (so make sure you book another night soon).

mummy2isla · 28/07/2009 19:40

No she'll be absolutely fine. Your parents will welcome the opportunity to rock / sing her back to sleep if she wakes up (and then tell you with amazement about how good their technique is!)

Roopoo · 28/07/2009 19:50

Im an idiot!!!!
Im going to go and enjoy myself!!!!!!

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mummy2isla · 28/07/2009 20:32

Go for it!!! I've regularly left (and still leave) my very very very dd with parents / in-laws / babysitters and the time away makes me miss her and appreciate how much I love her.

Yorky · 28/07/2009 20:52

14wks baby with your parents who love her and who you trust for a couple of hours?
No problem at all

I was when DB and SIL left 6wk old with my parents overnight!

messalina · 28/07/2009 21:05

And there I was hoping the thread was about actually leaving the baby on its own while you went out to inject yourself with live anthrax whilst touting for business in Soho and I was getting ready to express my righteous indignation. And all it was was a query about whether it was ok to leave baby with your parents. Shame. But do out and have a good time.

frAKKINPannikin · 28/07/2009 21:10

Go out. She'll be fine. You turned out OK and they looked after you when you were younger than that.

Have a lovely time!

thederkinsdame · 28/07/2009 22:58

Go and enjoy yourself. In a couple of years time you will grab any babysitting offer. Besides, you may not get another chance to go out for about 2 years...!

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