My Dsis has booked a holiday for herself and her DS 15, DD 11 and Dsis's DP and his teenage DD.
Dsis has said she will take my DS 12 with them which I was absoultely thrilled and grateful about.
Problem is this: My ds is a very pleasant boy, a bit shy but very kind and happy.
But Dsis dc do not really acknowledge him much. I don't think they are bothered one way or the other if he comes on the holiday. Whereas it's a big deal to DS to be going with them.
They are really quite indulged and I'm afraid that on the holiday DS will be ignored and v. often left to one side while the other kids get on with their own thing.(This happens here at home).
Dsis is not really the type of person to make sure that other DC are happy. I have mentioned to her that my only concern is that DS might left out, to which she said she would make sure he wouldn't be. But to be honest I don't think she will notice or, dare I say care once they arrive as long as her own dc are happy.
AIBU to cancel the holiday? DS says he wants to go but I want to protect him...