Ok, so I don't normally moan about DH as he is a wonderful, wonderful husband and father and usually pulls his weight. But why is it that he feels comletely able to tell me he's going out rather than ask if it's ok?? He works in London and before DS he would usually give me a rundown each week of what nights he was out (he gets invited to functions as part of his job). No problem before DS but after he was born we agreed that he wouldn't go to all of them as I need help and obviously can't go out myself if he isn't here. However the last few weeks he seems to have attended everything!
He was out last night and is out again tonight - I am knackered, we have been busy the last two weekends and I feel exhausted. DH had something (poss swine flu) last week and I feel like I'm coming down with the same thing. He took over on Tues/Wed night so I could have 2 unbroken nights' sleep but I am still knackered which makes me more convinced that I am getting ill. (NB DS sleeps through but stirs a bit sometimes so DH didn't have to get up whereas it would have woken me).
The most annoying this is that he might get tickets to Wembley tonight through work. But either way they are going along and may end up watching the game in a pub. Which he could easily do in the pub next door and be home at a decent hour.
I know DH's theory is that he'd rather pay me back with nights off than miss out on these things but it can't always be reasonable for him to go out.
I know I will probably get a lie in tomorrow by way of payback but that doesn't stop feeling miserable at the thought of getting through today with a demanding child and virtually no energy!
Whinge over now. Please don't flame my DH too much, I love him really.