For not wanting the ex to "Look after the house" whilst we're away?

9 replies

BingBangBaby · 22/07/2009 07:24

We're considering a two week holiday but we need someone to take care of our pets.

DP suggested his ex

This would mean giving her a key and having her nosying in the house whilst we're away. We know full well she would nosy as last time she was here, she was caught rummaging through my art cupboard critising my paintings!

If I was to suggest MY ex look after the house, DP would have a fit!

AIBU to say no to this?

OP posts:

Devendra · 22/07/2009 07:31

NO No NO you are NBU.

MamaLazarou · 22/07/2009 07:32

YANBU
YANBU
YANBU

sunnydelight · 22/07/2009 07:33

Of course YANBU, what on earth is he thinking!

kidcreoleandthecoconuts · 22/07/2009 07:34

yanbu.
I would not want DP's ex in our house.....and neither would DP come to think of it.

RealityIsGettingMarried · 22/07/2009 07:40

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CreativeZen · 22/07/2009 07:43

Make other arrangements and then tell him there's no need for his ex to help out, but to thank her for offering.

monkeyfacegrace · 22/07/2009 07:52

Huh? Why are you on here asking advice? Id be at home, kicking his arse into touch. No way.

AnyFucker · 22/07/2009 10:43

what a strange thing to ask, when this bloke is clearly lying to you (re. your other thread)

in case my answer is not clear, no fucking way

WhereYouLeftIt · 23/07/2009 00:56

Only in the Twilight Zone would saying no to this idea be considered unreasonable. No, YANBU.

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