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chim000 · 16/07/2009 13:53

I've been having a good day mouse hunting & I get a msg from him on fb that has fucked me off beyond belief.

I messaged him asking what time I should drop the boys off to him this weekend & telling him that they have a party Sun pm so telling him what time I need to pick them up. He messaged me back telling me the time & asking me to take his ps2 round.

We've been split up for 2 years & suddenly he wants the ps2 back. He didn;t want it when we split up cos he had money to buy a ps3, x-box 360 & wii, but now he's run out of money & has had to sell all the other consoles to pay for his drugs & drink, so now wants that back.

So I replied with this message...

"in that case please can I have my plates and cutlery back and my £13,000 that I'm in debt cos of your drinking & drug taking & can my parents have their money back for the part of the house that they gave you. And while we're at it can I have the money for looking after you and ferrying you to and from hospital when you had the accident. Thanks"

Maybe I am, but FFS!

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chim000 · 16/07/2009 14:25

OK, so it's going to be calm, collected me that drops the boys off tomorrow.

The bank have stopped anything being taken out of it & stopped charges, but the interest is adding up each month.

I would love so much to be free of him, and I hate so much that 2 years on I still have a link to him (boys obviously will always be a link, but you know what I mean) with that bank account.

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chim000 · 16/07/2009 14:28

JJDad - kind of same but different. The joint a/c is with smile & my individual one is co-op, so yes, technically the same bank. However it is very rare that my a/c is more than a few pounds in credit. My income covers my outgoings with literally a few pence spare each month. So while I have over £500 in there atm, next week I'll have over £800 in bills due. It's just the timing of payments that's made it look like I have spare income if that makes sense?

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dittany · 16/07/2009 14:28

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JuJusDad · 16/07/2009 14:34

Chim - sounds as safe as you're gonna get, and they'd have hell to pay if they over-rode the freeze that's on there.

BTW - totally understand having to keep some lines of communication open, yet wanting to shut em all down.

You could always try and see how the PS works before you hand it over Afterall, he said he weanted it, not that he wanted it still working...

chim000 · 16/07/2009 18:44

He hee, well it'll probably take him an age to figure out that there's no fuse in it.

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oohLahLahRaver · 16/07/2009 18:52

Give it him back but sabotage it.

drlove8 · 16/07/2009 19:22

im with oohlahlahraver, take the insides of the ps2 out and give him the emptyshell with a brick inside. he's a twunt!

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