I know he does it unintentionally but he does wind me up.
We have two kids - 6 and 3. 6 year old has possible Aspergers and can be pretty demanding (lots of routines etc). 3 year old is well, 3, and bonkers.
DH works an hour and a half away so is out until 7 every day.
I work (freelance) and study and do everything to do with the kids etc.
DS2 is ill today. He should have been in nursery yesterday but had ringworm. Today he has temperature and ear ache etc so might not be able to go in tomorrow.
I have a deadline for a board meeting on my PhD today at 7 - three way call with two other academics to check my progress. I had to do it at 7 as I'm surrounded by kids until then.
I now have a GP app for DS2 this afternoon. DS 1 however has end of term school disco which he will not attend without me.
So I was just explaining all this to DH. Telling him I don't know how I'm going to fit taking DS2 to the GPs with DS1 disco and any prep for this meeting.
His answer...go to the GP's then go late to the disco ...oh and no one will be very bother if I'm not up to speed for my board.
The idea of dragging DS1 to unplanned GPs visit before a disco which he'll be wound up about fills me with dread so I'll have to cancel it and try and get passed triage for another app tomorrow which, as it's a work day, means saying bye bye to the second child free day of the week.
AIBU to be annoyed with him? I know he can't solve my dilemma but he could sympathise. He never has to do this rushing around himself and has never even done the school/nursery run himself