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To want to murder my husband tonight....

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CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 14/07/2009 19:14

Ok

Yesterday dh started complaining of a bad smell in living room. I could not smell anything but have been preoccupied with swine flu and poorly kids.

This morning he was moaning again so i pulled out sofas and found a few bits of apple and an empty yoghurt squeezy tube that was a bit green Neither smelt though but i hoovered and put some neutradol down.dh blamed my sisters kids as they are a bit untidy and moaned for about an hour

This afternoon the smell became unbearable and i put my nose to the carpet and it smelt fresh except for one spot next to the sofa that smelt familiar....

when my dh goes out for a drink i ask him to sleep on sofa as hes very restless in sleep (shouting out and shaking me )

one of the other delights of him being pissed is that on a few occasions he has been known to pee. This has been

on our bed,in our bed
on the carpet
in the bed in a hotel on hol
and worse of all in the babys cots at my sisters house (the baby was in bed with us, we were sitting)

he went out last fri and slept downstairs and he must have pissed on the carpet.

Im bloody fuming.Its a new shagpile and now i have had to book a carpet cleaner

i am more annoyed that hes tried to blame everone else but then the burk prob cant remember

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dizzydixies · 14/07/2009 20:15

mine does all that and more too, we're no longer in the 1950s and we all have to work/pull our weight

DH gets short shrift if he snores, if he pee'd everywhere I'd make him sleep in the garden

dollparts · 14/07/2009 20:17

Let me get this straight: your husband is near perfect save for the fact he pisses on the carpet when he's pissed?

Not exactly a minor flaw methinks. Is he some kind of a geriatric that could perhaps do with a catheter or a slap upside his head?

I would get in touch with a tenna lady or some other incontinence company and ask them if they will take him away for piss-appropriately training whilst you and the kids go on your holiday.

That may stop him pissing and taking the piss.

The fact he still lives in the house and not a kennel in the bottom of the garden makes you way too reasonable.

dollparts · 14/07/2009 20:17

Let me get this straight: your husband is near perfect save for the fact he pisses on the carpet when he's pissed?

Not exactly a minor flaw methinks. Is he some kind of a geriatric that could perhaps do with a catheter or a slap upside his head?

I would get in touch with a tenna lady or some other incontinence company and ask them if they will take him away for piss-appropriately training whilst you and the kids go on your holiday.

That may stop him pissing and taking the piss.

The fact he still lives in the house and not a kennel in the bottom of the garden makes you way too reasonable.

dollparts · 14/07/2009 20:17

Let me get this straight: your husband is near perfect save for the fact he pisses on the carpet when he's pissed?

Not exactly a minor flaw methinks. Is he some kind of a geriatric that could perhaps do with a catheter or a slap upside his head?

I would get in touch with a tenna lady or some other incontinence company and ask them if they will take him away for piss-appropriately training whilst you and the kids go on your holiday.

That may stop him pissing and taking the piss.

The fact he still lives in the house and not a kennel in the bottom of the garden makes you way too reasonable.

dollparts · 14/07/2009 20:18

wtf? I only posted once......?

Northernlurker · 14/07/2009 20:18

CP - of course he doesn't want to see it - it's scary and it means needing to change - but he HAS to change - drink destroys marriages, eats up incomes and wrecks lives. Ok - you may carry on like this and it may be ok - but you don't know that - there are about 150 ways at least in which this can get worse for you all - so please push the issue and help him help you all.

booyhoo · 14/07/2009 20:20

when i was a child i knew a boy who peed the bed at nigjht and his doctor gave him this alarm thing that he wore on his pants and when he peed it went off really loud to wake him. it stopped him peeing the bed. a suggestion perhaps?

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CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 14/07/2009 20:23

He doesnt pee in his sleep

i have seen him do it

he wakes up and heads for toilet but is sleepwalking so thinks hes there and pees on the spot

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booyhoo · 14/07/2009 20:28

in that case id make him sleep elsewhere when he's been out for the night. its not fair that he keeps doing that and i this case it has even caused a row between you and him

ConnieComplaint · 14/07/2009 20:38

When you have seen him doing it, have you tried to waken him?

I would sit him down & talk to him about his problem, seriously, you're doing him no favours by not addressing it.

Think how embarrassing it would be for your children to know daddy does this I'd die of shame & my heart would break if my children discovered my dh couldn't ake it to the toilet as he had drank too much alcohol.

Good Luck with it all x

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CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 14/07/2009 20:47

i am usually woken by him milling about and a few times i have spotted him amd woken him

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duchesse · 14/07/2009 21:04

Quite frankly Peanut, I'd be waking him with a few punches in the face if he looked like peeing anywhere but the loo.

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CHOCOLATEPEANUT · 14/07/2009 22:07

i have done.On more of a few occasions.

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