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AIBU?

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in thinking its just plain wrong to attend a friends party and then hit on her father when its the first time she haqs seen him in 10 years!

32 replies

Mamazon · 12/07/2009 11:20

it was my best friends birthdayt party last night. her father has been in prison and she hasn't seen him since his release ealier this year, so in all its been about 10 years.

her father came to the party. one of our friends who we know to be a little loose of moral anyway managed to get quite drunk quite quickly.

within an hour she was quite openly flirting with friends father. much whispering about it amongst fellow guests.

next thing we know is friends dd comes inside crying her eyes out because she just caught other friend and her grandfather outside together....in a compromising position shall we say.

Now i believe he is just as bad. it was his daughters party and he should have acted with some rsstraint. but what sort of friend does that? honestly. i know i am being judgy judgson of judgville but i think she is a dirty pile of filth.

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LaurieFairyCake · 12/07/2009 11:21

are they both single though?

famishedass · 12/07/2009 11:22

What's wrong with two single people getting off with each at a party?

LaurieFairyCake · 12/07/2009 11:22

cos otherwise the story is "people go to party and cop off"

Simples · 12/07/2009 11:23

what a rough sounding party

famishedass · 12/07/2009 11:25

what a rough sounding party

no, it sounds great - beats the hell out of the boring family get togethers I usually go too.

squeaver · 12/07/2009 11:31

It's certainly dubious.

But I want more salacious details:

  • what was he in prison for?
  • are they both single?
  • what sort of things has she done before?
  • what sort of compromising position? Snogging? BJ? Up the jumper rub?

[Jeremy Kyle emoticon]

famishedass · 12/07/2009 11:32

Grin Grin Grin

Hassled · 12/07/2009 11:34

I love "a little of loose moral" . The friend is a tramp.

I also want to know why he was in prison.

LaurieFairyCake · 12/07/2009 11:34

oh yeah, if he was humping her from behind round the side of the house at a party where children could have seen I'll have a judge.

phoebeophelia · 12/07/2009 11:38

Great to have an occasional foray into ChavWorld.

Ho hum, back to the gardening....

Simples · 12/07/2009 11:38

I think he was there for assault

7 years

out on licence

Mamazon · 12/07/2009 11:38

i don't have full details of what exactly they were up to but i have got the impression it was a knee trembler behind the building.

loose of moral was me trying not to call her a dirty slut, but sadly that is precisely what she is.

She is married, he as far as i know is single.

he was in prison for money laundering and fraud.

I don't even have an isue with the pair of them getting together...apart from the fact she isn't single, but as its never stopped her before..
I would have expected them to chat and maybe flirt and exchange numbers. not get it on in full view of the family he hasn't seen in a decade.

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junglist1 · 12/07/2009 11:39

I wouldn't expect my mates to start copping off with my dad at his home coming party Oh crap had a vision then, sorry Tam.

Simples · 12/07/2009 11:40

ah WHITE COLLAR CRIME

oh the party was prob in Kensington

squeaver · 12/07/2009 11:46

She's married

Money laundering - she thinks he's got a stash of cash somewhere doesn't she?

Maybe she's one of those women who write in prisoners on Death Row.

Mamazon · 12/07/2009 11:46

no not kensington. dead centre of chavsville.

white collared i guess, butt he money he was laundering was for a drug gang full of murderers.
all very eastenders

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Hassled · 12/07/2009 11:49

Mamazon, you live a very interesting life. Am I right in thinking you are the playground hammer-attack woman?

Anyway, YANBU, and the birthday friend must be very hacked off.

Mamazon · 12/07/2009 11:51

not an interesting life, just that i live in the world chav centre.

honestly i am stunned by some of the going's on around here that pas for normal behaviour. i dread the day that i become so accustomed to it all it fails to shock me.

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Mamazon · 12/07/2009 11:52

and yes, it was me that saw the hammer attack.

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Hassled · 12/07/2009 11:53

Well MN can be your shock-barometer - if in doubt, we'll reassure you that you are still sane .

Mamazon · 12/07/2009 11:54

its got to the stage where i wonder whether im just unreasonably judgy and maybe a little snobbish.
i need reassurance from normal people that these things are in fact wrong and im not imagining it

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Ronaldinhio · 12/07/2009 11:57

yabu and you know it....I love indiscretions at parties

DesperateHousewifeToo · 12/07/2009 12:04

Maybe she was just helping him to locate his 'stash' which he had hidden for safe keeping

MadameOvary · 12/07/2009 12:05

YABU, that would give me the cat's bum mouth too.
Its tacky and distasteful.
Sounds more like Shameless than Eastenders tho.

drlove8 · 12/07/2009 12:08

by all means single concenting adults and all that..... but not in full view of the public! and children ffs! .... dirty slags the pair of them ... could they not have waited? or got a room? your poor friend, her poor wee dd! if i saw that id be trying to burn my eyes out [saw]

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