DP used to be a massive over-eater, in the end he had to have surgery to lose the weight he put on. Now he can only eat small portions of food in one go.
What annoys me is the way he seems to think everyone else should do this too. For instance, he keeps making subtle digs at my weight and "suggests" dieting. He insists on cooking every meal (he always has) and he makes mine a really small portion and says "that will be enough for you, won't it?"
Afterwards he will say "you won't want anything for afters, will you?"
Me and DD love Indian take-aways but only get one once every few months. We like to get a curry and rice each with a few popadoms. DP always says "I won't have one ... I'll just have some off each of your plates".
DD always kicks off and says she doesn't want him taking it off her plate and TBH, I don't either! we're treating ourselves to a rare treat, just because he can't eat much, why should we have to lose ours too?
He now says we're being "greedy" wanting a whole curry to ourselves. 1 curry - 1 portion, surely?
I'm sick of him being all self-rightious all of a sudden when if anything, he's the greediest one of us all. For instance, we can't save any chocolate in the cupboards as DP eats it when we're not around. All of the orange juice goes straight away as he drinks it all .. yet we're "greedy" for wanting a meal to ourselves now and again?
So is it him or are we being "greedy"?