I am quite new and my dd has started pre school and I have done quite a bit of the come back for coffee, play etc. I have invited back all the women I like now.The trouble is, I am off the radar for some reason when they arrange things. I have a happy personality and people always say hello and chat. I don't want to be like I used to be at nursery where I never said anything to anyone. But I feel lonelier now despite all my efforts, than in Sept when I came.
I think these mums are long term friends and I don't know what else I can do. I am sahm and my dh works long hours. Don't tell me they are all rude and I should find others to be friends with. It's a small village and this is it. I can't help on committees as they are in the evenings and I have to be home, also there is an unfriendly woman on that committee who gossips. Could it be possible she has poisoned the others against me without me knowing? Or am I getting paranoid here?