DP has a long term medical condition. He drinks to help him cope with life in particular knowing his condition will affect his health. I have asked him on several occasions to reduce the amount he drinks because I am worried the drink is adding to the health issues. He usually reduces the amount for a while, but it creeps back up and we have the same argument.
Every day I think about the prospects of being on my own with the dc. He knows I worry and yes I wish I didn't and wish I could be more positive for him.
We have reached stalemate now, he thinks I am unsympathetic and unsupportive. I think he knows he has issues that he has too address, but would rather carry on drinking as long as his health allows and does not like the fact I make him feel guilty.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To ask DP to cut down on the amount he drinks because it is having an affect on his health.
24 replies
timidatheart · 15/06/2009 14:20
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.