well i know I am not but i needed to share with all you ladies something wonderful

[TheLadyEvenstar]

some of you will remember me posting about the man who raaped me and escaped then went to ireland and raped a woman there.

HE WAS SENTENCED TODAY..

2 LIFE SENTENCES
2 5 YEAR SENTENCES
2 3 YEARS SENTENCE TO RUN CONCURRENTLY

PLUS THERE IS A EUROPEAN ARREST WARRENT OUT FOR HIM HE IS TO BE EXTRADITED HERE AND CHARGED ALL OVER AGAIN!!!!

I CANNOT STOP CRYING AND SMILING.

Please I don't want you to be sad for me I am alive, I have my days where the world is against me lol but I am ok ! I mean I have you all on here!!

goodness.what a horrible thing for you both.streets are safer if he is locked up

god you have humanity to feel empathy for other lady too

take care
sleep easier that vile bastard is locked up

Please I don't want you to be sad for me I am alive, I have my days where the world is against me lol but I am ok ! I mean I have you all on here!!

TLE, not sad for you (well, yes I am reading that post 22:58) but also really happy because he's behind bars. And you are so so lovely to feel such empathy - you really are.

human spirit and psyche is a marvellous resilient thing.

it can and does overcome really harrowing stuff

take care

Well I think you're fab!

Is there anyone there with you who can give you a cuddle? Must have been a bit of a shock seeing that picture.

i am glad that finally the person who did these awful things to you and the otherlady is going to be locked away.well done to you for getting on with your life.

DS's are in bed as is DP. I have been so nasty to him the last few months while this has been playing on my mind

Oh shocking yes. I thought i had seen the last of him.

DS1 burst into tears and lept into my arms when I told him. He said "Mummy its over now you can smile again"

can you get some couple time with dh?does he know about this?

perhaps copule time nice lunch out. acknowleddge you have had "stuff" on your mind and understandably feeling raw

hokey cokey X posts.oh have a well deserved blow out.you all deserve (you esp)

Scottish, no chance ds2 doesn't let me have a wee without him lol.

Oh bless him! I'm sure your DH will have understood why you were acting the way you were.

aha well you know what have a me-me day with wee un Velcroed to you

eat chocolate
watch schmaltzy dve/telly
get a badge "i am a great mum"

Scottish thanks...now how do i unvelcro urchin from me?

I have just read this thread and am welled up with tears. They are tears of empathy though lady, not sympathy.
I really hope that you may now find some closure on this whole horrendous part of your life.
My love, best wishes and respect are sent your way.

TLE, 33 knife wounds, rape, physical/emotional/mental feelings to get through too.

Wow, I admire you, you are amazing.

Thank fuck this sicko has finally got what he deserves. May he rot in hell.

Well I had the best nights sleep in FOREVER last night.

Hooray for good sleep - how fab. Have a wonderful day.

I don't even know you but I am so glad you are alive. There are no words to describe "him" so I would rather celebrate your closure and happy future.

xxxxx

I'm so glad for you

I'm so pleased for you

Take care TLE

I love you ladies!!!!!

I am at the moment writing something to put the Final nail in the coffin, I am writing to the Judge that sentenced him and also to him himself to say Thankyou for making me a stronger person.

He tried to take my life instead I have life and he has nothing!!!!!

You don't know how happy that makes me.

Sorry I am rambling