to be annoyed with dh for not telling me the shopping was being delivered between 9-11 TONIGHT?!!!

[pavlovthecat]

He ordered online yesterday, i said oh it will be expensive to deliver on a thurs, he said no its not, between 9-11am tomorrow is £4.00.

Suffering from hyperemesis and only able to eat certain foods, I had no brekky this morning, waiting instead for my lovely crumpets and peanut butter to arrive so I could have crumpets and peanut butter. Its all I have been thinking about.

DH stayed in bed til just now, and I said 'oh shopping arriving any time soon' and he said 'no its not' 'what?' 9-11PM, not 9-11am' 'you never told me that bit when you were ordering, I would have told you to change it!!!' 'oh, no you are right, i did not tell you that bit did i, sorry' He ofered to go out and buy some for me, very nice, but it all costs money and it should not have been necessary and i dont even think they sell crumpets at the shops.

I am soooooo upset that I have nothing to eat I actually feel tearful

In fact I do no care if IABU to be annoyed, I am so upset and hungry I intend to be irrational for longer. [hmph]

Actually, you know you are BVU! He was trying to help by getting a cheaper slot and, lets face it, lots of DHs on here would have no idea how to do a weekly shop online.

Let DH make it up to you - he has offered to nip out and get you crumpets and p.butter, so let him take care of you.

Hope you feel better soon.

And to make it worse, I told him I feel quite upset and he finds it amusing . He wants a cuppa, shit, fag etc before going...I almost screamed at him 'get up the fucking shop NOW'. and he said, 'can you make me a cuppa while I am out?'

I have gone back to bed after he had a lie-in, so NO i won't make you a drink.

I would agree about the weekly shop being difficult, but he needed me to log in for him, and all he had to do with slightly alter a pre-existing list! AND I found him a £5.00 off code from MN so there. AND he only did it as he could not be bothered to go to the shops this morning.

He is up the shops right now - it will only take him 10 mins and he can have his fag on the way

AND they do not sell organic whole earth peanut butter, they sell SUNPAT - bleurgh. It will have to do.

My cravings are very specific, and very shortlived

Ah bless ya heart! You nutter! I'd be hacked off at a delievery slot between 9-11pm too btw! Apart from anything else, if it doesn't arrive until nearly 11, then you've got to put it all away! I hope he'll be waiting up to do that!

Mo - I am in bed by 9pm these days, so yes he will! Least he wont have DD round his ankles!

(Have you had your DHs party yet?)

I didn't even know they delivered that late

he has just got back and said 'no they did not have any crumpets, I got you muffins is that ok?' NOoooooooooo! And then he laughed and said 'course they had bloody crumpets!!!' and then DD said 'I want some bloody crumpets'

But phew, in 5 mins, I will be happy. Not sure why I am so upset. Its all going to come back up anyway

I completely understand Pav, and YANBU. I am suffering with MS, not HG though. I asked dh to go and buy me a bottle of Diet Coke last Sunday. I hadn't eaten since Tuesday, and just fancied a cold glass of Diet Coke. He came back with Cola. Cola???? I sobbed for about half an hour.

He still didn't go back and get me Diet Coke and needless to say, the Cola is still in the fridge.

Men are twits.

Not yet Pav. It's Saturday week. Getting rather close now and preparations are gathering pace! Just got a super dress from Asda Direct, as suggested by Goober. I'm thrilled. It only cost $14!

Excellent! I love a good bargain!

I had my crumpets, then a 4 hour 'nap'

the bugger has gone out! He went out about 45 mins ago, to visit a friend who is going away to work for a few months, to 'get our sander back' or rather to play computer games. I was half asleep, having taken myself back to (or rather, not got out of) bed due to feeling unwell.

I have just realised the fucking shopping is due anytime between 15 mins and 2hrs 15 mins!

If I call him he will be mad. He will be 'you have been in bed ALL day, the least you can do is sort out the shopping' or similar. NO, you ordered it for this stupid time ffs.

wtd?

Would you be going to bed now then?
If you were, then call him and say you're going to bed in x minutes and he needs to be back for the shopping.
If you weren't going to bed, then you can wait for it.

I was in bed, lazy cow that I am...

luckily, tesco were very prompt, arrived at 9:05, and then DH remembered and came in at 9:10! I have put the frozen stuff away, DH can do the rest on account of the fridge stinking of garlic, which I cannot stomach right now .

I shall quit moaning now. For a few minutes anyway

I just reread what I typed - how rude. I am so sorry, I didn't mean to be
I often do the 9-11 slot and assume they will arrive at 9. They usually arrive at 8.30 which is even better.

lol i didn't think you were being rude! i am glad they were on time, and if was not feeling sorry for myself i might have agreed it was a good call!

Time for a midnight feast then? Remember to brush any crumbs to dh's side of the bed.

i had an apple, its all i could muster the energy for! all that food and it all made me feel ill