to be pissed off with dh right now

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i work full time.dh works shifts 2pm-10pm

i have been on own with dd 5 and ds 1.5 all bh weekend

(i took dd swimming sat am and shopping this am so have hardly seen him)

he rings today at 2.30 (wakes ds from nap) and says can you get tomorrow off which is not an option as i am bogged down at work (pile of work in corner says it all)

then to top it all

1. "Next Wed you will be going upstairs to watch tv at 7.30 wont you" Will I ?? "Yes its the Football Final" Like I know what game is on...

2.His friend who lives in USA is over. He has not spoken to him in 4 years as 'friend' says lost no. So hes going out with him Thurs night

im bloody fuming

he doesnt see his friend often does he?so i dont see problem there.

footballs not on alot is it?id gladly sit upstairs to avoid it.

he asked you if you could get a day off.you said no.wheres the problem?

you took your dc out saturday and today but its his fault youve not seen him????it sounds like he does long shifts too.

sorry i might be missing it-but whats so bad?

YANBU to be cross that you work full time and have been left with sole charge of the children all week-end. Where was your dh?

YABU to be annoyed that your dh asked you if you could get a day off, if he can watch the footie and if he goes out with a mate he hasn't seen for 4 years.

How can he watch the footie if he works 2-10?

sigh, does that mean my dh will be watching footie too?

have a glass of wine and chill

Hes booked time off for match

Hes booked time off for mate

He didnt book time off for us

I can take day off.We are recruiting this week and I am on panel.He knows thats.

I've been pissed off with my DH for around 3 days now, so I had better not comment.

Have you mentioned it to him at all?

I'd send him to the pub to watch the football tbh.

lol, said I wouldn't comment and then did. Please ignore my advice, my husband is in the pub every other night.

that's an excellent idea washersaurus. Why can't your dh kill 2 birds with one stone and go to the pub with his american friend to watch the footie on Wednesday.

He just came in as I was getting in bath and said 'im knackered'

I said 'yes so am I. I have not stopped and I am back in work tomorrow'

I told him he needs to check himself, telling me I need to be upstairs at 7.30, can i get a day off (when he knows damm well i cant)

he started talking and i said I am not interested get out of the bathroom.

im in bed now and I am bloody fed up

Oh don't go to bed fuming (like I did) it will just drag on and on. Why not ask him to arrange to take you out and spoil you next week and do some family stuff at the weekend to even things out a bit.

ha! cos american friend who we have not heard hide nor hair from in years rings last week (fri) and says oh i will see you tomorrow night at my sis wedding,your invited (no you wont you twat, we need a bit more notice than that..) then i say come around and he starts telling us when he cant fit us in (not footie night)
oh and hes going out now.got ticket to watch it at club with all the other morons

agghhhhh

i can see your point now.id be tad pissed off too.

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yabu, fair enough if you're pissed off but you're treating him like shit.
i know exactly what the reaction would be if the op had posted "i came in from work knackered today,started to talk to dh and he just said "i'm not interested get out of the room."
he's now gone to bed in a huff.

Football watchers aren't all morons!! It's a family event in our house. I love football and so do the DC's, and that includes 2 teenage daughters. Can't see why so many people all do separate things throughout the season,we all get together and make it an event! Proper family time.