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To not go to my step sisters wedding ??

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mummyloveslucy · 22/05/2009 19:55

My step sister is getting married in september. She lives about 250 miles away from me. My Husband won't drive me and I can't drive. I've asked my Dad for a lift with him, but he says he's not willing to travell with my 4 year old daughter as he says she'll be a nightmare.
So basically, I have no way of getting there. Also, the wedding isn't untill 4pm. My daughter needs to be in bed by 7pm or she really is a horror. I also wouldn't have anyone to babysit.
I'll need to let her know soon, but I'm not sure if she'll be disapointed. I don't quite know what to tell her.
er Mum, my step Mum has never liked me. I always make an effort for my Dads sake but she is always so cold towards me and my daughter. I don't want to make her any worse.
What should I do ?

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Boys2mam · 22/05/2009 22:18

I agree with Princess, put aside all the other stuff and ask do you want to go?

I agree your Dad is being UR, the 250m trip is a pita but any Grandad worth his salt would do this for his DGD, even if she is only 4!!!

Your step-mother is obviously a cow-bag in her own right-so what if you're there as a guest? Buy yourself a new dress, get the lift off your Dad and have DH babysitting DD...perfect night off

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