Ok, so like many other people we are feeling the pinch a little. We are going on holiday in half term and I was worried that we are not going to have enough spending money etc. Anyway, I went to the gym this morning and dh went to do some shopping. He had mentioned that he could do with some new pjs for going away. So he came back with a pair of Ted Baker pjs that cost £88!!! I didn't say anything because he had bought them with his own money, not joint account, but he saw my face when I saw the price tag and then kept asking me what was wrong. So eventually I told him I thought it was excessive - I wouldn't have had a problem if it had been on actual clothes, but pyjamas! He made the point that he once bought me some very expensive silk pjs as a gift, but they were a gift and that was long ago when we actually had spare cash. My normal pjs are £15 -20 from M and S. Please help me to get some perspective here. Now we are not really speaking and he has huffily said he will return them, but now I feel rotten that I have dictated to him how he can spend his money.