Joined for some wommen type advice - so be frank with me I can take it!
My wife and I got married in 2007. We are very much in love and I was delighted when she got pregnant shortly after our wedding. Unfortunately she was not so thrilled - very surprised and quite angry in fact. Any way things rolled on and she hated being pregnant but I did the best I could to support her. I should add at this point that my wife is in charge of the family firm. She takes her CEO duties very seriously and is I think quite possessive about them. This is not quite what I expected and we had quite a row over our honeymoon - because she had to work she cut it down to three days! Anyway - she found working at this pace near impossible during pregnancy and at last let me sort things out for her a bit. Our daughter was born last year and I was delighted of course. My wife was pleased but disappointed she was a girl I think - the first thing she said to me after the birth was 'the next will be a boy'!
So we go on - she's working at an impossible pace on a massive workload and making a lot of decisions I don't agree with.
What's prompted me to post is that she's told me today that she's got her old nanny coming to work for us from next month. I met this woman at our wedding and I think she's an interfering old bat! I'm not happy but my wife just gets furious and bursts into tears if I object to anything.
I feel like a bit of a spare part tbh so my question is this:
Should I just put up with this or is my wife not playing fair?