Had an email in work yesterday morning from our accountant in the office. He is getting married in June (common knowledge in work) but has not invited anyone from work (fair enough by all means).
However, in his email that he's sent everyone in the office, he said that he would appreciate any financial donations as a good will gesture for his wedding and that to save us bother, he is willing to deduct a chosen amount straight from our wage package and transfer the money into his account as he's doing the wages this month.
AIBU to think this is one of, if not THE, most shockingly rude things someone has ever suggested, at the fact he's not invited us then goes ahead to ask us for money?!