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to be gloating over how low exp is starting to feel

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ridingjoker · 05/05/2009 20:32

so.... totally useless exp called me the other day.

asks
......

wait for it
...

"can you call the local takeaway house and order me my favourite as i dont know their number or what i usually order"

me " er.... no"

he's finally started to realise perhaps choosing a gambling addiction over me was maybe not his finest moment.

is it wrong to feel so satisfied?

after yrs of his shite and emotional abuse. i am actually enjoying watching him fall to pieces slowly?

specially since he's made himself out to be "mr bloody perfect" all this time.

this is just an example of one of the many things. after yrs of making me out to be terrible mother.

other week he took dd to italy to see mil. she came home and he hadn't washed her in the whole week as "she wouldn't get in bath"

aibu to see him flounder. (i am still worst mother ever aparently)

but i am enjoying his halo slip??

this is terrible isn't it? karma will bite me on asse one day for this????

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mylifemykids · 05/05/2009 20:35

YANBU. Sounds like karma is biting him on the arse TBH!

I'm sorry but I did laugh when I read about him asking you to order him a takeaway! What a moron

iheartdusty · 05/05/2009 20:36

no. This is karma giving you some payback. Enjoy it!

ChippingIn · 05/05/2009 20:36

It will be worth the tooth marks

ridingjoker · 05/05/2009 20:41

oh thank you. thought i was being really mean to feel this way

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namebacon · 05/05/2009 20:46

Is he italian?

YANBU - it is human nature to enjoy seeing someone else get their comeuppance.

HOWEVER

Don't wish for him to fall to pieces, he needs to keep it together for his dds sake.

ridingjoker · 05/05/2009 20:52

he is italian.

and he has dd and ds to me to hold it together for.

dont want him to fall tp pieces.

do want him to realise he's been a twat and that dc are hard work and he should appreciate everything i've done to raise to 2 dc as well as i feel i have on my own (he was either at work or casino's their whole lives we were together)

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welshbyrd · 05/05/2009 21:05

Sorry but i did laugh at the takeaway bit

I would have ordered him a really hot blow your head off curry, or ordered him half the menu, and had to have to pay it

Utter cheek really
YNBU to be hm shall we say happy at his downfalls since the split, if he was like that as a partner

Noonki · 05/05/2009 21:07

yanbu in the slightest to feel pleased that he is getting his pay back

but obviously never let your DCs hear you bad mouth him as it will only hurt them in the long (and short) run.

ridingjoker · 05/05/2009 21:09

noonki. even though dc are still too young to fully comprehend what i say. i wouldn't bad mouth him infront of them. he is there father after all. regarless what he says about me infront of them.

moral high ground here i come

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FeelingOld · 05/05/2009 21:10

I can totally understand how you feel and no yanbu, its his payback time which he deserves.

ridingjoker · 05/05/2009 21:11

welsh - wish i'd thought of ordering wrong curry

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