My dd turns 2 in June and we are having quite a low-key little tea party for her with 4 of her (same age) friends. However, I'm a bit stuck as to whether or not to invite their older siblings all of who are my 7 yo ds friends. We have a quite small house but it could, at a push, hold that many, my concern was that it would turn in to a bit of a scrum with 4 older ones leaping around! Don't want to actually say no older ones as that seems a bit rude, they're nice kids and I see them everyday at school. Does anyone have any ideas on how to go about it or a way that I could happily have them all while making sure it was dd's special day!