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AIBU?

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to question the motives of a single lady texting m DH most days?

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AliceMumma · 21/04/2009 04:19

My DH has a male friend whos partner has a single slim blonde friend who texts my DH alot asking how his day was etc. Because i have 2 little kids,i dont go along much when he goes to see his friend so he always is there alone, and shes there alot.
Ive met her once and she is nice, but then she txt my DH saying i was giving her evil looks!! (which i honestly wasnt)My Dhs friend got married a month ago and my dh and this chick were in the bridal party and had a great day all hanging out and having fun. She now calls him Hun and puts xo after some texts, and txts alot on a saturday night when shes had a few drinks. He says shes just a friendly person who hasnt got many friends, which apparently she hasnt, but would any of you mind if your DH was getting texts like that? Or AIBU?

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lizandlulu · 21/04/2009 15:24

i am sorry i have not read all the threads as i am at work and dont have time, but i would put a stop to it now! she is putting you against her to start withm if it is all innocent and she is just friendly why isnt she firendly with you too?

it is not acceptable or appropriate

geraldinetheluckygoat · 21/04/2009 15:33

ugh she sounds very annoying. Agree with everyone else, put an end to it immediately!!!!

SalemWitch · 21/04/2009 21:56

YANBU.
She is at it. Sounds like a devious bitch. This is completely unacceptable and you know it. Stop it now. Lots of good advice on here about how to go about it calmly - I would have let rip long before now.

AliceMumma · 21/04/2009 22:05

It kinda started as a joke, like, i would say oohh is that your girlfriend Michelle txting you (even tho most of the time it wasnt) and DH would just laugh. But lately the last 3 times ive heard his ph get a message (3 seperate days) i look at the name and its her... And she said she was going to Australia and thort he might like to come along (?!) and asked him to help her move house on one of his precious only days off in the month. He told her yes ok, cos he is a real helper to people but i said NO WAY! SO he didnt.

3 years ago i had a girl friend who got on with DH and i got on well with her boyfriend and we would hang out alot. Me and her boyfriend would text a bit and would sometimes joke about sex (only with our partners never each other). I totally thort it was innocent and even showed DH the texts, and MAN DID HE HIT THE ROOF!!!!!!! So he should know how it feels...

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