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Sats week and Tonsillitis!

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STONER1 · 14/04/2009 12:28

Can someone give me some advice re Sats? My daughter is due to take them this year, but has been really unwell and is just suffering from her 4th bout of Tonsillitis and has missed some school. Her first date for a Tonsillectomy is 7th May, just before Sats! Do I let her have the op then or wait? She is getting Tonsillitis every 2 weeks, as soon as she comes off Antiboitics she gets Tonsillitis again, and seems to be getting more poorly each time. What will happen if she is ill during SATS week?

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feralgirl · 29/04/2009 09:35

SATs are a load of arse. As others have said and speaking as a secondary English teacher, we often don't get the results passed on from primary schools and when we do we don't trust them anyway as some schools are well known to give rather too much assistance during the tests

We've stopped doing SATs at KS3 because the govt. finally realised they were pointless after last year's fiasco and, judging from the news, I can't imagine that KS1 and KS2 SATs will be around much longer (isn't one of the unions calling for a boycot?)

Where I live there's this big festival thingy in the middle of SATs week so kids from all the schools in the county blithely miss their exams to go to it with their parents. Noone cares!

Agree with everyone else; tell the school no way!

itchyandscratchy · 29/04/2009 22:11

Say no and if they query it just state firmly "I think we both know that SATs will have been scrapped in in the next year, and then hopefully you will be able to look back on this period with a little bit of perspective and realise how silly your request has been."

failing that ask them what the local paper might make of this

josette · 29/04/2009 22:21

Look after your daughter and forget the SATS. I teach in a secondary school. We ignore the KS2 SAT results and have all our Year 7s do a different baseline assessment from Durham Uni. The SATS results are not that reliable for us... so much depends on the attitude of the primary school to them and how they have taught the students towards them.
The school just wants her decent results to boost their standing in LEA school league tables and make sure they meet their targets.

cagneyandlacey · 11/03/2010 05:37

My daughter is so stressed out about the SATs in May that she is sleep walking at least three times a week? I think all parents should have their children off sick that week in May, as I intend to do!
The year 6 teacher at our school,is rude, arrogant, has no people skills and has been scaring the children with Sats since last September.
I was so incensed by the remark of our teacher who stated that SPELLING and SCIENCE are no longer tested that after his rude and flippant response to a concern I raised, I resigned as the Chair of the Governing Body. He also being a governor (quite an insignificant one, I might add?) I felt his high ranking status for achieving results was at odds with his appalling ability to reduce his pupils to tears at Parent Consultation meetings and having a poor reputation with parents, both past and present.

Please be assured that these needless tests are purely to assess the standards of teaching and NOT the ability of the child. With an older child at Secondary school, I speak with experience when I say that all the year 7 children were put into a "Mixed Ability" group. At the end of year 7 the staff made their own appraisals of the childrens abilities and placed them in sets accordingly for year 8.

I am sick and tired of having my children frightened, stressed and even bullied into believing that they must perform well. My child is not 11 until July?

What a shame that the teacher I refer to is an EX Secondary School Teacher, preferring to teach at Primary Level? (I am sure you will draw your own conclusions with that?)
Unfortunately, whilst he strives to instill fear and a sense of being unworthy into my daughter, he has overlooked the fact that he is "Out of Touch" with Secondary Education.
A disgrace to the teaching profession but a sad man who obviously has a lot of insecurities?

I feel strongly against these tests and have spent the last 7 months trying to reassure my daughter, despite the fact that she already "Lacks Confidence" (according to this school)
How Ironic that this "Trait", which past and experienced teachers have identified and worked tirelessly to address has been destroyed in 7 months at the hands of an inexperienced, deluded and unproffessional MONSTER?

I too hope that your dd makes a full and complete recovery, but PLEASE don't worry about SATs, they really are, NOT worth the paper that they are written on!

Perhaps we should ALL visit our GP for that week in May and discuss the STRSS that our 10/11 year olds are unecessarily enduring?

fiveisanawfullybignumber · 11/03/2010 08:53

I would double check with the senior school, and tell your DD's school she will not be sitting them.
She sounds like she's suffering the way my DS2 did, only his was for just over 18m. You'll probably find that if the antibiotics now aren't killing off the infection she'll have one last big infection a few days after the op, just so you're warned! Ds2 stopped eating and drinking 3 days after the op. Then was readmitted with a v high temp and given IV fluids & antibiotics for 4 days.

Ask her consultant for some antibiotics to take home after the op if necessary, and definitely giver her plenty of time to rest, no exams!!! Good luck.

dinasaw · 11/03/2010 10:38

DS2 missed his KS3 English sats as he had his appendix out. The operation was during school holidays but the exam was scheduled for the first day back at school. I rang the school and they told me not bother sending him in for the first day and to return when he felt up to it.

bruffin · 11/03/2010 10:43

this thread is a year old!

fiveisanawfullybignumber · 11/03/2010 12:02

Just realised that! Why did it dragged back up now???? Bizarre.

pat2chat · 11/03/2010 12:15

My DS had his tonsills out and its the best thing... health is far more important than SATs. It may be worth approaching the secondary school and asking what impact it would have when she starts there.At my kids secondary school they did their own assesments when they had started. My sis is a teacher and said its more important for the primary school than the child.

Also if your primary school lay it on as much as my kids school did chances are the stress will bring on a bowt of tonsillitis!

bruffin · 11/03/2010 12:27

Pat the dc in OP was due to have her tonsils out a year ago!

pat2chat · 11/03/2010 13:16

OMG i'm so not with it today!!

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