Here the story goes
I've been with my current partner for five years now and we have e 3 years old little boy.
He's from Newcastle and attended Uni there and even if he's been living in London for the past 8 years, he has no friends down here and he's still in contact with his friends from Uni. We had few conversations with me explaining to him that I appreciate him having a close relationship with his old friends but I would like for him to try and get along with my friends and his partners and to be more involved in my and our child's social life.
Anyway, one of his closest friend is a 30 years old woman. She's single, pretty and very open when it comes to friendships with male guys.
When DS was a baby we were invited to a wedding ( again, his friends from Uni). Now, during the reception she fed OH some cream off her finger and OH didn't bit and eyelid. I was a bit miffed but didn't say anything especially because we had already had various arguments about me having been forced to leave DS for three days with his parents when he was still a baby and been breastfed( but that's another story)
Last year OH, his best friend and her went on a rally around Europe for a week. I wasn't to keen about it because I have the impression that she likes him....I trust my OH but I don't trust her.
Few weeks ago we went away for a weekend with his friends from Uni and she was one of six who were there.
On the day we said our goodbyes, she lip kissed him and I was just lost for words. she then went to lip kissed OH's best friend who she knows has a crush on her ( but she doesn't want to have a relationship with him)
I waited until she left to open my mouth.
OH couldn't understand why I was crossed with him explaining that that's just the way she is and acts with her male friends.surprisedsurprisedsurprisedsurprised Now, I am not a very jealous woman but I think that the way she acts is just a no.no and what bothers me the most is the fact that OH sort of defended her
So, do you think that lip lissing men who are not single in front of their partners is an acceptable thing?
I would never do such a thing and honestly it would never cross my mind
I am just overreacting or I am right in being crossed with my OH and not being too confortable with him going on a rally this year with his best friend and this woman again?