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to LOL at this letter from our neighbour.....

93 replies

StarlightMcEggzie · 09/04/2009 11:26

We went him a short note asking if we could prune the branches overhanging our garden. They are almost covering a third of our garden and prevent us from getting any sunlight after about 2pm. We wanted to speak to him face to face but he never answers the door.

So the typwritten letter goes:

Dear Mr and Mrs Starlight,

Thank you for your note, & you are of course very welcome to do whatever you wish as regards the overhanging branches into your garden. :-At least, you've had the good manners to ask :-your predecessor used to just 'butcher' the trees &bushes without so much as a 'by your leave'! That's the 'Building Trade', though, for you, isn't it? They don't care about Wildlife or Plants :-They're only happy if they've managed to cover the entire planet in Bricks & Mortar!

Do be careful though, as I believe there's a pair of Magpies nesting in that tree, and we don't want to upset them, do we?

The Lilac bushes should flower in a few weeks time, and you are very welcome to pick as many flowers as you wish:- Th Bushes only flower for about a fortnight once a year, but they do look nice around the house whilst they last. If you want any cuttings of anything, you're very welcome also:- It's not your fault that you've inherited a garden that looks like something out of a 'Garden Centre'. Once it starts to grow a bit, you should get some of the Wildlife and Wild Flowers that I get in mine. Also, as your youngster grows up, I'm sure he would appreciate some lawn also:- My lawn used to make a fabulous Football Pitch/Tennis Courts etc when I was your son's age (many moons ago!) although it may be a bit difficult to see it now that it's covered in 'Forget-Me-Nots', 'Bluebells' & 'Ground Ivy', but such is life!

I've got some Grass Seed & a book that explains how to lay a lawn, if you're interested:- Our Neighbours on the other side owe their lawn to my late father providing the seed and showing them what to do, so I'll try to carry on the 'Family Tradition' should you so wish! (Not that I'm particularly interested in gardening, in case you hadn't noticed!!)

Anyway, that's enough ramblingfrom me:- Good luck with the 'Pruning' & take care!

Kind regards & Best wishes,

XXX

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SerendipitousHarlot · 09/04/2009 11:28

Oh I think that's a really nice letter! Why are you LOL'ing?

MamaG · 09/04/2009 11:28

Ah I think that sounds very sweet!

TheMadHouse · 09/04/2009 11:28

I think it is a wonderful letter

Nancy66 · 09/04/2009 11:29

I think he/she sounds lovely. I'd swap them for my scumbag neighbours and their 4 dogs any day.

StarlightMcEggzie · 09/04/2009 11:29

It's friendly - sure, - but it is the comments about our predecessors and our garden and the ramblings about having a lawn that made me LOL.

All I want is a bit of sunlight!

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PuppyMonkey · 09/04/2009 11:29

He sounds smashing.

MaryMotherOfCheeses · 09/04/2009 11:30

that's lovely. You need to stop writing notes and talk to each other, sounds like lovely neighbours to have

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TheMadHouse · 09/04/2009 11:30

I think it sounds as though they want to be freindly. I wouldnt be LOL at all

chequersmate · 09/04/2009 11:31

What a kind man.

pellmell · 09/04/2009 11:31

I wonder if the poor bloke has a hearing impairment and never hears you knocking?

IheartEASTEREGGS · 09/04/2009 11:31

oh he sounds wonderful. really friendly.

OhBling · 09/04/2009 11:32

I think he sounds like a mad hatter. A sweet mad hatter, but mad nonetheless!

How high are the branches? Can you even reach them?

bellabelly · 09/04/2009 11:32

I think that's awfully sweet. He is definitely "encouraging" you to get your garden done more like his but it doesn't sound snotty just rather gentle and nice.

StarlightMcEggzie · 09/04/2009 11:32

Mary My DH refuses to knock on his door anymore because he thinks the no. of times he has done it over the past couple of months could be classes as harassment. He never answers the door, even when we know he is in.

He lives on his own.

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pranma · 09/04/2009 11:33

What a very nice man he sounds-worth cultivating imho {pun intended]

MaryMotherOfCheeses · 09/04/2009 11:34

Fair enough. Sounds a bit of a character!

StarlightMcEggzie · 09/04/2009 11:34

Yes I think he is quite mad, but in a nice way. You should have seen the letter we got from him when we wanted access to his drains once.

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chequersmate · 09/04/2009 11:35

My old landlord was like this - sweet old man who used to post us photographs of his garden in bloom in summer (while we had a postage stamp sized back yard )

He also sent us a xmas card which was just a photograph of him (he had a big white beard like santa, you see).

He was so quirky, it was brilliant.

I would love a neighbour like yours.

chequersmate · 09/04/2009 11:35

My old landlord was like this - sweet old man who used to post us photographs of his garden in bloom in summer (while we had a postage stamp sized back yard )

He also sent us a xmas card which was just a photograph of him (he had a big white beard like santa, you see).

He was so quirky, it was brilliant.

I would love a neighbour like yours.

StarlightMcEggzie · 09/04/2009 11:37

He's an accountant apparently. Doesn't like computers though.

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bronze · 09/04/2009 11:37

I love eccentrics.
Wish I had him as a neighbour rather than the ones who try to kill us with poisoness gases

clumsymum · 09/04/2009 11:37

I would send him a thankyou note.

Do bear in mind that he would like you to defer cutting back the Lilac until after it's flowered (I would choose to do that too), but he has suggested that so gently.

He sounds lovely, please don't make fun of him .

ellingwoman · 09/04/2009 11:39

How lovely. We just have old gits round here

DuffyFluckling · 09/04/2009 11:40

He sounds ace.

Maybe he can't answer the door because he is suffering from an accute case of 'Apostrophitis'?