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to think that my neighbour shouldn't be lecturing me on child safety

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GinaFjord · 08/04/2009 19:15

A mini moan - but please feel free to tell me I am a rubbish mother if I am in fact being unreasonable.

We live in a very quiet cul de sac - no crime round here, v v friendly area etc etc.

Anyway, in the mornings when I take the dog for a walk I put DD in her pushchair then go back in the house for the dog. I am literally in the porch, with my back to the door but DD is at the bottom of our (loud crunchy gravel driveway).

Occasionally I might quickly go to the loo while DD is on the drive but that is right next to the porch, and like I say, the driveway is loud and if someone were to come down it I would hear someone).

Anyway - my neighbour came over today to warn me not to leave DD "all alone outside the house" as you don't know "who is about".

I know she's just being kind and thoughtful etc etc but DD is my PFB and I really try not to be one of those parents who sees danger and paedophiles on every corner and now I feel like peopel think I am utterly careless

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JamInMyWellies · 09/04/2009 20:10

I do that too. But to be fair we live in a tiny village down a private gravel road if we lived in a bigger busier town or city I would not do this.

herbietea · 09/04/2009 20:13

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tryingtobemarypoppins · 09/04/2009 20:25

My god that is terrible herbietea!

My sons seat straps and so tightly held against him.

Interesting just asked DH about this thead as I do sometimes as OP does, however he felt totally different and unsafe about it! The conversation in our house continues!

herbietea · 09/04/2009 20:32

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tryingtobemarypoppins · 09/04/2009 20:41

I think also as he doesn't have him all day and doesn't have to face the whole "getting out the door/in the door issue" he doesn't really understand!

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