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In having had a very bad week indeed

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TheMightyBoosh · 03/04/2009 14:22

MOnday: DH gets warning og potential redundancy; there are two remainning jobs to fight it out for, both mean a drop in salary below survival level and hours that mean Dh wont be home weekdays when the kids are (I'm not lazy and I know others have it worse- but 2 of my kids ahve ASD, one possible ADHD and there's a baby so it can hard alone with them)

Wednesday: called in tos chool for the news that ds2 may ahve ADHD / Dyspraxia /

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nametaken · 03/04/2009 14:28

he keyed the car while your dh was stood there?

cornsilk · 03/04/2009 14:30

What a nightmare week you've had. You need chocolate and wine and lots of it.

EasterBunnysWizzskas · 03/04/2009 14:33

Peachy, what an arse! What is wrong with some people? and for you. Bet the police won't do anything.

Sorry to hear about your DH's job.

smudgethepuppydog · 03/04/2009 14:56

He waited round the corner to confront you then keyed your car , jeez he's a real charmer. I hope the police DO take some action.

I really hope your week picks up from here on in.

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TheMightyBoosh · 03/04/2009 14:57

nt no, I think dh had gone back in to put the oil in before moving car (can't ahve been long, I was under 5 minuts and car had been moved)

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TheMightyBoosh · 03/04/2009 14:58

EAsterbunny I know, but car needs a respray down the door now (have been to see it now, scratch abre metal about 2 foot long); Insurance saud they will pursue with a crime number and police coming over at 4.30 to take a statement (must be a slow week )

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Gentle · 03/04/2009 15:35

MightyBoosh that sounds like a crap week indeed, but please take cheer from the fact that key man has proved himself to have a tiny, tiny, tiny, tiny, tiny, TINY cock.

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TheMightyBoosh · 03/04/2009 15:35

Very true indeed Gentle

A most happy thought.

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psychomum5 · 03/04/2009 16:24

aww peachy.

man is a wanker of the highest degree, and this is the only way he gets any joy from life. feel sad for him (while also wishing plagues of biblicl proportions to feast on his tiny cock).

pants news about DS2. much symapthy. I hope it is not as bad as it looks at the moment (news like that laways looks bleakest the first few days).

and for the reduncancy threat....... tis crappy for everyone, as you point out, but when it is yourself, feels like you are the only one.

maybe a glass of wine/gin (alcohol of choice) later might ease the week off??

Stayingsunnygirl · 03/04/2009 17:20

May the fleas of a thousand camels infest his pubic hair.

BouncingTurtle · 03/04/2009 17:33

'May the fleas of a thousand camels infest his pubic hair.'

And his arms too short to scratch!

Peachy - what a f'ing c*

Geepers · 03/04/2009 17:40

Was your DH blocking the road while he was filling your oil?

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TheMightyBoosh · 03/04/2009 18:18

Yes geepers but briefly- and only because car lights had all started flashing panic signs and he'd not wanted to move it unless engine seized (new engine, now being looked at by garage)- it's not a main road though just a residential one and the POlice think he was drunk

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TheMightyBoosh · 03/04/2009 18:20

ANyway Geepers- that's irrelevant to the main part as I wasnt there when he spoke to Dh and there's nothing on this planet that gave him the right to wait for me and ds4 to scare us rigid! If he ahd further issues they were with DH not me. There's also no reason to damage a car- that's why the police have opened a file for criminal damage.

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Geepers · 03/04/2009 18:23

So your husband blocked the road while filling oil, then left the car there to put the oil away before moving the car?

I'd have felt like keying the car too, sorry.

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TheMightyBoosh · 03/04/2009 18:26

I hope the police get you if ever you do that to.

And coming having a go at me and scaring me rigid? Go on justify that- how was what DH did in any way my fault? Even if he ahd (and I know he didnt) sworrna t him, whatever- still not MY fault

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psychomum5 · 03/04/2009 18:27

geepers, there is never any excuse for keying someones car............NEVER!!!

anyone who felt it justified, I would serioulsy consider unhinged!!!

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TheMightyBoosh · 03/04/2009 18:35

And having clarified with DH

The man had a massive go at Dh then reversed away.

At which point Dh went inside as road was clear; man came back (by own admission) and keyed car after drivinga round a one way system and parking up.

Now, I've been angry and have probably though 'Oh I'dlike to...' (And I know why you got your name PSycho ) but I can't imagine I would ever geta ngry, drive away etc etc etc then wait for the woman and child I saw leaving the house before incident to have a go.

I might if I had had a really abd day call man a wanker or similar

There's a cut off point between think and do though isn't there? A really essential one.

Police were pretty sure it was linked to the pub near the house; when ds4 was a day old Dh was putting DS4 in car seat to rush him to SCBU as visitng midwife thought he ahd heart problems; another man came up and asked to pass, DH said we're rushing the baby to hospital will be going now (in 30 seconds); man revcersed and drove at dh and ds4.

The pub sells OAPs really cheap boozy lunches (our village is know for it) and Police did seem to think there's a link; who knows?

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psychomum5 · 03/04/2009 18:39

I have felt the need too, I have to say, but like you say peachy, there is a big difference between think and do.

regarding wanker driving at DS4 and DH!!!

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