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to expect a shop assistant to have more common sense than this...

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jennybensmummy · 01/04/2009 13:15

I was in a local shop today buying a few bits, amoungst those a lucky dip for tonights lottery (you never know i might be the one!! though doubt it and feel probably a pound wasted!) anyway as we went to pay ben (who is 3 yrs old!) was holding my bank card ready to give the lady - it goes into the card machine anyway and the card is in my name, its me who was going to put the pin number in so therefore me buying it, surely only like someone holding my bag up til the point i get my purse out to pay but the woman refused to sell me a lucky dip as ben was holding my card, he wouldnt hand it to me as he knows he gives it to the lady when its time to pay so i told him to give it to her, but she wouldnt take it as wasnt ready for it!!!! am i being unreasonable in thinking this was all a little over the top, if ben was 15 i can see the issue that maybe i was buying it for him, or that it was his card or something but ffs he is 3 and just holding my card before i needed to put pin in etc. The whole fuss made it a joke and a queue formed as it took a good few minutes as her first response to me asking for the lucky dip was sorry i cant sell you that, i was like.. why??? (i am clearly old enough so never thought of this as a possibility!) then she said as he was holding card etc etc so all in all took about 5 minutes before we left the shop from me asking for the lucky dip as even me holding the card with ben was not good enough!!!!! It wound me up a little am i getting annoyed about nothing or was this just a pathetic assistant who took the rules far too literally, i mean me and ben sharing holding the card is surely ok?????

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kiddiz · 01/04/2009 13:49

Send us a postcard then !!!!!!

KimiWantsAnEasterEgg · 01/04/2009 13:53

YANBU she was being stupid, probably just trying to make her boring job seem interesting,

DSM · 01/04/2009 14:10

I would suggest that if your child has a 'full meltdown' when not being able to hand the card over himself, you should not allow him to even have the card, as technically it should only be handed over for payment by the actual cardholder.

I do agree that the actions of the woman in the shop wer a bit

funkybuddah · 01/04/2009 16:16

actually im appaled that she didnt call your card issuer as your DS was obviously commiting card fraud!!!!

YANBU, the shop assistant is being a tit

Gorionine · 01/04/2009 19:46

Yes Nabster, her choice of hair clips could actually have causes harm. I almost called the fashion Police myself!!

CherryChoc · 01/04/2009 20:43

In some shops you can use a card to pay for lottery. It depends whether the money goes through the till or the lottery terminal. So places like supermarkets, WHSmith etc you will be able to use cards.

When I worked at WHS a man came to buy lottery and his son, a toddler, handed me the card and the slip to put in the machine. I looked at the man and made a joke about "Hmm, is he (the baby) over 16?" (In an obviously joking manner) As he laughed I took that as confirmation that he was buying the ticket for himself so felt confident I could sell it to him legally.

ChippingIn · 02/04/2009 02:47

YABU

...not to have died laughing.... what a prize twat she is!!

Hope it's a lucky ticket for you!!

rebee · 02/04/2009 07:09

Ha! Similar thing happened to me i tesco express.

I picked up a packet of Baileys chocolate's from the sweet section whilst with my sister (who was 17 at the time). As I was next in the queue I handed them to my sister whilst I dug out my purse from my bag and couldn't believe what happended next....

The cashier refused to serve me as he accused me of buying alcohol for an underage person. I told him he was being ridiculous and called over the supervisor...... who agreed with the cashier!!!!

jennybensmummy · 02/04/2009 08:03

pmsl at bsileys chocoltaes, only have to be 16 to buy alcoholic chocolates anyway im sure!!

Lottery ticket wasnt lucky unfortunately!

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Gorionine · 02/04/2009 12:48

Are you just saying that because you do not want to share with us?

jennybensmummy · 02/04/2009 21:20

if only!!!!!

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