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to be annoyed with my bosses

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stressssssssssed · 01/04/2009 09:18

I am currently on a business trip. I have been sent for a week, even though, TBH, the work could have been done in two days with more direction. This is my first ever business trip, and they know it, but they didn't even bloody tell the people that I was coming until a week ago, and haven't really told me what they wanted me to do.
The relationship between the head of the team and the whole bloody office I work with in London is terrible. When I arrived, he just said hello to me and that's it. That's all he's said to me the whole time I've been here. I know that he used to get on very well with my old bosses, but absolutely despises the new ones, and there seems to have been a lot of crap going on between him and the management in London (I don't know why or what it's about), so he's super uncooperative. I was basically asked by someone else in London to spy on him, and I think he suspects as much. In the past, I got on well with him, felt free to ask him questions, but not any more. One of the issues that I have been told to ask about, is around outstanding audit issues which are naturally super-sensitive. All I got told about the audit was that "someone called Sandra's looking into it. She's great". The team here has barely been with the organsation three weeks, with no overlap with the old team, so they have no clue what's going on (and hence can't answer the list of essentially pointless questions I've been given to ask). They are trying their best, and are really friendly (unlike their boss).
I have yet to adjust to the local time. My body is hours behind the local time, so I have had barely any sleep, as I haven't been able to fall asleep before 2 (but getting up at 7). I am home sick, so home sick, missing DP like crazy. DP's jealous, as he never gets sent anywhere any more for work, so any complaints don't really register. The hotel is, granted, lovely, but looks out on an industrial landscape and all the other people in there also out on business, on their own, looking miserable. It's soul-destroying.

AIBU for wanting to go home now?

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stressssssssssed · 01/04/2009 09:19

Sorry if that was a bit long and incomprehensible. I'm really upset. My boss also phoned me this morning to have a go at me about something that wasn't my fault. I'm sitting here swallowing back tears.

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Owls · 01/04/2009 09:22

Sounds grim. How long are you expected to stay out there now?

BennyAndJoon · 01/04/2009 09:22

YANBU for wanting to go home.

stressssssssssed · 01/04/2009 09:23

Thanks all. I'm here until Saturday night. Some people have been really lovely, but otherwise it's been a nightmare. My bosses are also wanting to send me to Ukraine for a whole week. There will be one other person there to train. How will that take a whole week?

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Owls · 01/04/2009 09:43

Oh dear. Depends what you're training them to do I suppose! But after Ukraine you'll be home. Just hang onto that thought. YANBU btw.

stressssssssssed · 01/04/2009 09:57

Thank you.

Well, there has been some progress on the jetlag front. For the first time since I arrived, I'm actually hungry at the appropriate local time.

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BouncingTurtle · 01/04/2009 10:09

Oh poor you! I've been away on business and so had DH and we both agree -it's not the jolly free for all that people think it is! Much prefer the comfort of my own bed, for one thing!
Hope this week passes quickly for you, or you are able to get home quicker! Whereabouts are you?

stressssssssssed · 01/04/2009 10:17

Moscow.

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