I'm wondering how best to handle this. I have three children aged 7, (nearly 8), 4 (nearly 5) and a 22 month old. We have never discussed sex/how babies are made or done a lot on our bodies. My older boy used to be curious about the differences in his body and mine but doesn't look any more with curiousity. My four year old laughs at my body (well I can't say I blame her!) and wonders when she will get "big muscles" (I wish!). I've been toying with the idea of getting a book for them both but don't know whether to do so before they show any real interest or whether they - particularly the older boy - is just too shy. I know he's fascinated by himself as his hands are always down his trousers fiddling about - usually while watching t.v. Also, I am not sure what words to use - whether I should soften them and how much is too much?! Anyway your thoughts and opinions would be grateful