arranged a night out for him last night at his favourite restaurant, table booked for 12 however he let me know last minute he'd invited all his work friends so had to somehow fit them in too last minute restaurant v obliging luckily.
I'm 15 weeks pg and still ill with morning sickness low blood pressure, agreed to get up with dd (2.6) this am so he could have a lie in. Ledft the restaurant at11.10 pm (sorted the babysitter too, she had to be gone by 11.30 organised everything). He said he'd be home between 12.30 and 1.20 at the latest. Went home, now he knows I struggle to sleep when I'm waiting for him to come in and I've got bad insomnia anyway.
At 2.15 still not back, called him he turned up at 2.30 pissed out of his face, stinking of fags (which he's supposed to have given up) drunk incoherent with his brother clumping about. After I'd lost it with him ( I know it was his birthday but I thought 2.30 was taking the piss and we agreed that if he wants "big" night out he arranges to stay out so I can sleep and he doesn't disturb me and dd) finally got to sleep FUMING after 3.00am. Dd up at 0600am, feel like crying through tiredness, being a shit mother cos haven't got the energy to do anything with dd apart from let her wantch cbeebies.
I'm pg, exhausted, trying to do a masters degree, I went to a lot of effort (and saved up) to give dh a good party and I'm fed up with his bloody adolescent selfish behaviour getting so drunk, keeping me up and having FA consideration.
His excuse? "I didn't realise the pub had extended opening hours so we jsut stayed".
Was supposed to be doing breakfast in bed for him but he can go jump. Whe he's up feel like packing my bags and going to parents for the weekend just to get some sleep.
So much for a nice mothers day tomorrow, I'm so F**king upset and angry.
AIBU?